"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If i see a girl on myspace and have a reason to message her i will do so and she will write back and we will get on great, i could get her email address if i wanted to. When i meet a girl in person e.g. through freinds she will ussualy want to talk to me and be freindly.

All this time i am being genuine and sinceir, and i talk to girls and they are happy to hear from me.

ON the other hand if i go out of my way to chat up a girl, if i say to myself, im going to this party and plan to pull a girl, i wont mange to, the girls will avoid me.

If i have not the slightest intention to get with any girl, for example if i dont expect to see any girls and suddenly some girl turns up, I can do well.

Can any of you relate to this? I litraly have no game when i try to game a girl but if i am genuine and dont talk with the girl to chat her up but rather just being freindly with no intentions on the side then she iwll take to me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You don't need to talk a girl up. You're yourself and you're confident. You can make a girl laugh with a few words, and walk away from her to go mingle with others. You don't aim for girls, you make them aim for you. You're the prize.

This should be your mindset.
 
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WC2 said:
You don't need to talk a girl up. You're yourself and you're confident. You can make a girl laugh with a few words, and walk away from her to go mingle with others. You don't aim for girls, you make them aim for you. You're the prize.

This should be your mindset.
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When i do that im ace, but when i have been seeting myself up to chat up a girl, even if i say im going to chat up a girl at the pary tonight, any girl. I am still setting myself up for failure.
 
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The girls you do talk to who are happy to hear from you - do you sleep with them or are you just friends
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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check_mate_kid_uk said:
If i see a girl on myspace and have a reason to message her i will do so and she will write back and we will get on great, i could get her email address if i wanted to. When i meet a girl in person e.g. through freinds she will ussualy want to talk to me and be freindly.

All this time i am being genuine and sinceir, and i talk to girls and they are happy to hear from me.

ON the other hand if i go out of my way to chat up a girl, if i say to myself, im going to this party and plan to pull a girl, i wont mange to, the girls will avoid me.

If i have not the slightest intention to get with any girl, for example if i dont expect to see any girls and suddenly some girl turns up, I can do well.

Can any of you relate to this? I litraly have no game when i try to game a girl but if i am genuine and dont talk with the girl to chat her up but rather just being freindly with no intentions on the side then she iwll take to me.
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**** this gameing bull**** and all the ****ed up **** on this site

take my advice: if your not ugly as ****, just be ****ing hilarous but kind of arrogent at the same time, like exaple:
HER: OH (YOU), I JUST LOVE THAT PICTURE IM PUTTING IT ON MY MYSPACE
YOu: ok
HER: REFRESH THE PAGE DO YOU SEE IT
You: YEah now you myspace is cool
you know **** liek taht understand?
 
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