"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Gentlemen, what do you think about this?

Ace of Spades

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My friend told me today that:

"Every girl likes you unless she explicitly states that she doesn't"

I forget how it came up, but I can see how it would apply, it kinda does make sense.

What do you folks think?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Thats the same basic metaphor for "strangers are just friends you haven't met yet." Or better yet, "innocent until proven guilty."

It's a good thought, though.
 

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Yea, that's true.

However, I bet it does make approaching tons easier if you keep this (among other things) in mind.

I've done several cold approaches since I started coming here, and I've had a pretty good success rate, and this will make it even easier.

Some advice I can give to newbies here is to just browse and read, read, read for a while and stay away from posting unless you have had significant experiences. I posted about once or twice a week only, while still continuing to read the bible, short tips, and the posts here, and that was a lot more helpful to me than just jumping right in and typing posts.
 

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My favorite..."I don't get rejected, I only find out if the woman has good taste."
 

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Well if you want to be her friend she wont say she doesnt like you :).
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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