Gentleman?

[WWFC]

Hey,

Quick question, how do you feel about acting like a gentlemen, for instance giving up your seat for a girl if she has nowhere to sit? Thanks

 

[GQ Prettyboy]

It is all up to you. Really you don`t need to ask the question about being a gentleman. Do it because you want to. You don`t need any approval. I would do it and don`t give f*ck what anybody thinks about it.

 

[TheCloser]

That is the classy, confident thing to do. And don't care what anyone else thinks.

 

[stormwriter]

I think i'm going to start being more of a gentleman, for several reasons:

- In a way, it makes you appear ABOVE them, cause you are acting classy.

- It makes them respect you, cause you command respect with your behavior

- You stand out, cause most guys don't really act like gentlemen. (Remember not to make it looking like you are PRETENDING to be a gentleman.)

- I'm approaching 30 years old, and my MTV hipster goofball persona is getting old.

- I've been watching lots of Cary Grant, and black and white movies where they are gentlemen.

- I'm trying for a more sophisticated type of good looking woman, not some sk8r chick or skank. I've realized that women don't get turned on when i do my Beavis and Butthead imitation, or jump into sticker bushes just to get a laugh.

- I think it was David Deangelo that says his acting like a gentleman, combined with his ****y+funny attitude throws them off guard. He says, "always send them mixed signals."

- It seems to work for our fictional Don Juans like James Bond.

- It's challenging to MYSELF. I can barely go two sentences without cussing, so this is a personal challenge to myself.

- Being a gentleman is parallel with the DJ beliefs of being a Challenge and having Self-Control. You don't have your hands all over her, and you aren't talking about topics like sex, cause a gentleman wouldn't do that.

Just some of my thoughts....

 

[FlyGuy]

"It seems to work for our fictional Don Juans like James Bond. "

I hear guys on this site talking about James Bond all the time... don't forget that:

a)Like you said, its fiction

b)James Bond has looks, confidence, aura, mystery, charm, etc. so don't read to much into something like giving up a chair Besides, I don't think I've ever seen JB give up a chair for a woman.

Personally, I may or may not give up a seat for a girl. Just depends on the situation. Do NOT THINK that it will land you pvssy though. If the girl is interested in you it won't matter much if you give up a seat for her or open a door. It just shows you are a nice guy. I used to always open doors for girls, let them go first if there was a line, etc. It never got me anywhere.

 

[Versace]

Being a gentleman is always toward your advantage. As for the definition, I think you should use your common sense and study up on it. Read some books on what it is to be a gentleman and take the knowledge. Remember to use Self-Dicipline!