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Gentleman?
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If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
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GQ Prettyboy
Don Juan
It is all up to you. Really you don`t need to ask the question about being a gentleman. Do it because you want to. You don`t need any approval. I would do it and don`t give f*ck what anybody thinks about it.
stormwriter
Senior Don Juan
I think i'm going to start being more of a gentleman, for several reasons:
- In a way, it makes you appear ABOVE them, cause you are acting classy.
- It makes them respect you, cause you command respect with your behavior
- You stand out, cause most guys don't really act like gentlemen. (Remember not to make it looking like you are PRETENDING to be a gentleman.)
- I'm approaching 30 years old, and my MTV hipster goofball persona is getting old.
- I've been watching lots of Cary Grant, and black and white movies where they are gentlemen.
- I'm trying for a more sophisticated type of good looking woman, not some sk8r chick or skank. I've realized that women don't get turned on when i do my Beavis and Butthead imitation, or jump into sticker bushes just to get a laugh.
- I think it was David Deangelo that says his acting like a gentleman, combined with his ****y+funny attitude throws them off guard. He says, "always send them mixed signals."
- It seems to work for our fictional Don Juans like James Bond.
- It's challenging to MYSELF. I can barely go two sentences without cussing, so this is a personal challenge to myself.
- Being a gentleman is parallel with the DJ beliefs of being a Challenge and having Self-Control. You don't have your hands all over her, and you aren't talking about topics like sex, cause a gentleman wouldn't do that.
Just some of my thoughts....
- In a way, it makes you appear ABOVE them, cause you are acting classy.
- It makes them respect you, cause you command respect with your behavior
- You stand out, cause most guys don't really act like gentlemen. (Remember not to make it looking like you are PRETENDING to be a gentleman.)
- I'm approaching 30 years old, and my MTV hipster goofball persona is getting old.
- I've been watching lots of Cary Grant, and black and white movies where they are gentlemen.
- I'm trying for a more sophisticated type of good looking woman, not some sk8r chick or skank. I've realized that women don't get turned on when i do my Beavis and Butthead imitation, or jump into sticker bushes just to get a laugh.
- I think it was David Deangelo that says his acting like a gentleman, combined with his ****y+funny attitude throws them off guard. He says, "always send them mixed signals."
- It seems to work for our fictional Don Juans like James Bond.
- It's challenging to MYSELF. I can barely go two sentences without cussing, so this is a personal challenge to myself.
- Being a gentleman is parallel with the DJ beliefs of being a Challenge and having Self-Control. You don't have your hands all over her, and you aren't talking about topics like sex, cause a gentleman wouldn't do that.
Just some of my thoughts....
FlyGuy
Master Don Juan
"It seems to work for our fictional Don Juans like James Bond. "
I hear guys on this site talking about James Bond all the time... don't forget that:
a)Like you said, its fiction
b)James Bond has looks, confidence, aura, mystery, charm, etc. so don't read to much into something like giving up a chair
Besides, I don't think I've ever seen JB give up a chair for a woman.
Personally, I may or may not give up a seat for a girl. Just depends on the situation. Do NOT THINK that it will land you pvssy though. If the girl is interested in you it won't matter much if you give up a seat for her or open a door. It just shows you are a nice guy. I used to always open doors for girls, let them go first if there was a line, etc. It never got me anywhere.
I hear guys on this site talking about James Bond all the time... don't forget that:
a)Like you said, its fiction
b)James Bond has looks, confidence, aura, mystery, charm, etc. so don't read to much into something like giving up a chair
Besides, I don't think I've ever seen JB give up a chair for a woman. Personally, I may or may not give up a seat for a girl. Just depends on the situation. Do NOT THINK that it will land you pvssy though. If the girl is interested in you it won't matter much if you give up a seat for her or open a door. It just shows you are a nice guy. I used to always open doors for girls, let them go first if there was a line, etc. It never got me anywhere.
Being a gentleman is always toward your advantage. As for the definition, I think you should use your common sense and study up on it. Read some books on what it is to be a gentleman and take the knowledge. Remember to use Self-Dicipline!