"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Gentleman,I have realized it is time...

ItsOnNow

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I have spent some time thinking this up.Here I go.....

I have realized that in order to live my life for the better,I must make many changes. First,it is more mental than anything else. Getting rid of all this negative stuff. The Depression,Self pitying,Im worthless,no good,etc. Instead,what I want to do is turn that around into the guy who says "I'm gonna take you home,and fvck the **** out of you." All in all,being a more confident secure,happier,sexual person. I think that has been a big part of my problem,possible lack of sexuality,looking at porn all the time doesn't help, and lack of confidence. I want to be the guy who can approach with ease,have fun,and be a more likable person.Actually,I g2g. I think you see where I am coming from.I have more to say later....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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tick37

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It sounds like your still going to let your life revolve around women. That's a bad idea. Go out looking for a good time and fun. Women come to you when they aren't your soul intent. Get a life of your own and find what you enjoy. When you let women in your life, they will become a part of your world-not the other way around.
 

DonGorgon

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tick37 said:
It sounds like your still going to let your life revolve around women. That's a bad idea.

Um male animals lives instinctively revolve around the females cause that is an integral part of procreation... wether you believe it or not 99% of what we do is for the sake of mating ... Dont let an ego complicate the basics of human existence.

So to the OP I say get as many female options as you can and dont love or impregnate them...
 

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ItsOnNow said:
I have spent some time thinking this up.Here I go.....

I have realized that in order to live my life for the better,I must make many changes. First,it is more mental than anything else. Getting rid of all this negative stuff. The Depression,Self pitying,Im worthless,no good,etc. Instead,what I want to do is turn that around into the guy who says "I'm gonna take you home,and fvck the **** out of you." All in all,being a more confident secure,happier,sexual person. I think that has been a big part of my problem,possible lack of sexuality,looking at porn all the time doesn't help, and lack of confidence. I want to be the guy who can approach with ease,have fun,and be a more likable person.Actually,I g2g. I think you see where I am coming from.I have more to say later....

That sounds awesome!

So your plan IS what?.....
 

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DonGorgon said:
Um male animals lives instinctively revolve around the females cause that is an integral part of procreation... wether you believe it or not 99% of what we do is for the sake of mating ... Dont let an ego complicate the basics of human existence.

So to the OP I say get as many female options as you can and dont love or impregnate them...
Most of your statements are crap. Hate to say it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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romangod

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DonGorgon said:
Um male animals lives instinctively revolve around the females cause that is an integral part of procreation... wether you believe it or not 99% of what we do is for the sake of mating ... Dont let an ego complicate the basics of human existence.

So to the OP I say get as many female options as you can and dont love or impregnate them...

Your post is a contradiction. If the male animals instictively revolves around females for procreation then why do you advise to not impregnate them? No offense, just wondering.

My view is that we are not just male animals. We are conscious beings that no longer act purely on instinct. One just has to read some of the discussions here of men that fell into the Matrix by not making conscious choices with women and their lives.
 

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ye exacty man u are on the right track!!! ALL YOUR WORK
STARTS FROM THE INSIDE!!! I thought that i was all depressed and
low on energy and **** when i realized that i had a major health problem!!!
Most these guys tryin 2 learn all these techniques and all these worhtless stuff that don have any value on them..
 
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