"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Gentleman,I have realized it is time...

ItsOnNow

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I have spent some time thinking this up.Here I go.....

I have realized that in order to live my life for the better,I must make many changes. First,it is more mental than anything else. Getting rid of all this negative stuff. The Depression,Self pitying,Im worthless,no good,etc. Instead,what I want to do is turn that around into the guy who says "I'm gonna take you home,and fvck the **** out of you." All in all,being a more confident secure,happier,sexual person. I think that has been a big part of my problem,possible lack of sexuality,looking at porn all the time doesn't help, and lack of confidence. I want to be the guy who can approach with ease,have fun,and be a more likable person.Actually,I g2g. I think you see where I am coming from.I have more to say later....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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tick37

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It sounds like your still going to let your life revolve around women. That's a bad idea. Go out looking for a good time and fun. Women come to you when they aren't your soul intent. Get a life of your own and find what you enjoy. When you let women in your life, they will become a part of your world-not the other way around.
 

DonGorgon

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tick37 said:
It sounds like your still going to let your life revolve around women. That's a bad idea.

Um male animals lives instinctively revolve around the females cause that is an integral part of procreation... wether you believe it or not 99% of what we do is for the sake of mating ... Dont let an ego complicate the basics of human existence.

So to the OP I say get as many female options as you can and dont love or impregnate them...
 

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ItsOnNow said:
I have spent some time thinking this up.Here I go.....

I have realized that in order to live my life for the better,I must make many changes. First,it is more mental than anything else. Getting rid of all this negative stuff. The Depression,Self pitying,Im worthless,no good,etc. Instead,what I want to do is turn that around into the guy who says "I'm gonna take you home,and fvck the **** out of you." All in all,being a more confident secure,happier,sexual person. I think that has been a big part of my problem,possible lack of sexuality,looking at porn all the time doesn't help, and lack of confidence. I want to be the guy who can approach with ease,have fun,and be a more likable person.Actually,I g2g. I think you see where I am coming from.I have more to say later....

That sounds awesome!

So your plan IS what?.....
 

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DonGorgon said:
Um male animals lives instinctively revolve around the females cause that is an integral part of procreation... wether you believe it or not 99% of what we do is for the sake of mating ... Dont let an ego complicate the basics of human existence.

So to the OP I say get as many female options as you can and dont love or impregnate them...
Most of your statements are crap. Hate to say it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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romangod

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DonGorgon said:
Um male animals lives instinctively revolve around the females cause that is an integral part of procreation... wether you believe it or not 99% of what we do is for the sake of mating ... Dont let an ego complicate the basics of human existence.

So to the OP I say get as many female options as you can and dont love or impregnate them...

Your post is a contradiction. If the male animals instictively revolves around females for procreation then why do you advise to not impregnate them? No offense, just wondering.

My view is that we are not just male animals. We are conscious beings that no longer act purely on instinct. One just has to read some of the discussions here of men that fell into the Matrix by not making conscious choices with women and their lives.
 

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ye exacty man u are on the right track!!! ALL YOUR WORK
STARTS FROM THE INSIDE!!! I thought that i was all depressed and
low on energy and **** when i realized that i had a major health problem!!!
Most these guys tryin 2 learn all these techniques and all these worhtless stuff that don have any value on them..
 
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