"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Maxwell

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Perhaps its a matter of "the grass in the next field is always greener" but the lack of AFCs I meet around is frankly intimidating.
True, it's probably a mass facade, but it seems like I know 10 AMOGs for every AFC. The majority of guys I know seem to pull down chicks without much problem; it's as if I live in a city of DJs.

It seems like the AFC pandemic I'm always reading about never reached my neck of the woods, (Victoria, Australia) which makes things a lot harder for me as the competition is quite fierce.

Much of the material here talks about AFCs as if they make up 99% of the modern male population, but I just don't see it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Maxwell said:
Perhaps its a matter of "the grass in the next field is always greener" but the lack of AFCs I meet around is frankly intimidating.
True, it's probably a mass facade, but it seems like I know 10 AMOGs for every AFC. The majority of guys I know seem to pull down chicks without much problem; it's as if I live in a city of DJs.
Most the people I encounter are AFCs of one form or the other. They could be good at pulling chicks but then get totally AFC with the women in later stages.

When out I see most guys not approaching, dunno where you get these AMOGs from?
 

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These men are not DJs.

Just because you know how to pickup a chick doesn't mean your a DJ.

As for the reason chicks are getting picked up left and right, the explanation for that is easy; they want to be picked up. The game is HEAVILY shifted in our favor. Women want to be ****ed, now the only obstacle is to let her know exactly how you're going to go about it.

Men put picking up women on this high pedestal which I never really understood. To be honest, it really is as easy as it sounds. Talk to a woman, be original, make her laugh, and then quickly get to the point that you're going to rock her world. Almost all women go for this.

You don't have to be a DJ.
 

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I also think they're mostly bragging. Yeah its not some godly skill to pick up women, but most guys exaggerate how good they are at it.

Either that, or they get female attention for some other pathetic superficial reason. For example I know two guys that get lots of hot girls. Both are involved in drugs - one guy gets them because he gives them lots of weed and then hits on them while they're high.

The other deals and makes $$, then goes around showering money on these girls. Yeah it lets him **** them, but I am pretty sure the second his money disappears they'd be gone.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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