"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Generation AFC really in effect?

Maxwell

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Perhaps its a matter of "the grass in the next field is always greener" but the lack of AFCs I meet around is frankly intimidating.
True, it's probably a mass facade, but it seems like I know 10 AMOGs for every AFC. The majority of guys I know seem to pull down chicks without much problem; it's as if I live in a city of DJs.

It seems like the AFC pandemic I'm always reading about never reached my neck of the woods, (Victoria, Australia) which makes things a lot harder for me as the competition is quite fierce.

Much of the material here talks about AFCs as if they make up 99% of the modern male population, but I just don't see it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Maxwell said:
Perhaps its a matter of "the grass in the next field is always greener" but the lack of AFCs I meet around is frankly intimidating.
True, it's probably a mass facade, but it seems like I know 10 AMOGs for every AFC. The majority of guys I know seem to pull down chicks without much problem; it's as if I live in a city of DJs.
Most the people I encounter are AFCs of one form or the other. They could be good at pulling chicks but then get totally AFC with the women in later stages.

When out I see most guys not approaching, dunno where you get these AMOGs from?
 

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These men are not DJs.

Just because you know how to pickup a chick doesn't mean your a DJ.

As for the reason chicks are getting picked up left and right, the explanation for that is easy; they want to be picked up. The game is HEAVILY shifted in our favor. Women want to be ****ed, now the only obstacle is to let her know exactly how you're going to go about it.

Men put picking up women on this high pedestal which I never really understood. To be honest, it really is as easy as it sounds. Talk to a woman, be original, make her laugh, and then quickly get to the point that you're going to rock her world. Almost all women go for this.

You don't have to be a DJ.
 

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I also think they're mostly bragging. Yeah its not some godly skill to pick up women, but most guys exaggerate how good they are at it.

Either that, or they get female attention for some other pathetic superficial reason. For example I know two guys that get lots of hot girls. Both are involved in drugs - one guy gets them because he gives them lots of weed and then hits on them while they're high.

The other deals and makes $$, then goes around showering money on these girls. Yeah it lets him **** them, but I am pretty sure the second his money disappears they'd be gone.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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