"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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General question, a girl returns your call with a text...

MyTeamSupreme

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Do you respond? Heres an example. You call her Saturday night and she doesn't answer. She responds you on Monday with a "whats up?"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I take that as a bad sign, but that's just me...the way I see it is: If she wanted to talk to you, she would have answered. She clearly wants to just txt or has a low IL.
 

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It's one thing if they text right back and say they are at the Doctor's office or something, but if they take 2 days then it's probably not a good sign. I would sometimes text and ask if it's a good time to call.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i am a 27-year-old male and have fallen in love with a friend who is seven to eight years younger than me. we belong from same cast she is very close to my heart and but wide age gap of range is clicking in mind.In future if I get marry with her,Is there any problem in my life.? what should i do?I dont want to leave her. or Do you think wait will be worth for me like when she will be age of 20-21?? can i know the "secrets" of being a HARD TO GET man.(step by step process)
 

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MyTeamSupreme said:
You call her Saturday night
You blew it right here.

Never call a girl on a friday or saturday night unless you are already banging her.

It instantly marks you out as a loser with nothing else going on. You should be letting her wonder what you're up to.
 

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vishnu said:
i am a 27-year-old male and have fallen in love with a friend who is seven to eight years younger than me. we belong from same cast she is very close to my heart and but wide age gap of range is clicking in mind.In future if I get marry with her,Is there any problem in my life.? what should i do?I dont want to leave her. or Do you think wait will be worth for me like when she will be age of 20-21?? can i know the "secrets" of being a HARD TO GET man.(step by step process)
Don't fall in love with your friends. Unless she initiates it theres a 99% that you will get rejected.
 

ENIGMA16

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You blew it right here.

Never call a girl on a friday or saturday night unless you are already banging her.

It instantly marks you out as a loser with nothing else going on. You should be letting her wonder what you're up to.
This isn't really true. I call girls all the time on Friday and Saturdays to do stuff, even if I'm not fvcking them. The difference is that I'm inviting them along to stuff I've already got planned.
 
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