MyTeamSupreme
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Do you respond? Heres an example. You call her Saturday night and she doesn't answer. She responds you on Monday with a "whats up?"
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
General question, a girl returns your call with a text...
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
seek&destroy
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I take that as a bad sign, but that's just me...the way I see it is: If she wanted to talk to you, she would have answered. She clearly wants to just txt or has a low IL.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Low IL
It's one thing if they text right back and say they are at the Doctor's office or something, but if they take 2 days then it's probably not a good sign. I would sometimes text and ask if it's a good time to call.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
i am a 27-year-old male and have fallen in love with a friend who is seven to eight years younger than me. we belong from same cast she is very close to my heart and but wide age gap of range is clicking in mind.In future if I get marry with her,Is there any problem in my life.? what should i do?I dont want to leave her. or Do you think wait will be worth for me like when she will be age of 20-21?? can i know the "secrets" of being a HARD TO GET man.(step by step process)
You blew it right here.MyTeamSupreme said:
Never call a girl on a friday or saturday night unless you are already banging her.
It instantly marks you out as a loser with nothing else going on. You should be letting her wonder what you're up to.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Don't fall in love with your friends. Unless she initiates it theres a 99% that you will get rejected.vishnu said: