MyTeamSupreme
Don Juan
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Do you respond? Heres an example. You call her Saturday night and she doesn't answer. She responds you on Monday with a "whats up?"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You blew it right here.MyTeamSupreme said:You call her Saturday night
Don't fall in love with your friends. Unless she initiates it theres a 99% that you will get rejected.vishnu said:i am a 27-year-old male and have fallen in love with a friend who is seven to eight years younger than me. we belong from same cast she is very close to my heart and but wide age gap of range is clicking in mind.In future if I get marry with her,Is there any problem in my life.? what should i do?I dont want to leave her. or Do you think wait will be worth for me like when she will be age of 20-21?? can i know the "secrets" of being a HARD TO GET man.(step by step process)
This isn't really true. I call girls all the time on Friday and Saturdays to do stuff, even if I'm not fvcking them. The difference is that I'm inviting them along to stuff I've already got planned.You blew it right here.
Never call a girl on a friday or saturday night unless you are already banging her.
It instantly marks you out as a loser with nothing else going on. You should be letting her wonder what you're up to.