"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm still at school and to stack the deck against me in djism terms i have a reputation of being a pervert, i have an awful complection and i am a nerd (although i love it). So what am i going to do about it?

I am trying the bootcamp and so far (2 days in) i've said hi to 9 new people and kept more eye contact than usual. Although adversly i seem to have started to stutter slightly.

I just wanted to know where i should go outside of school for this sort of thing (i'm 15) and maybe any help or encouragement you can give me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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try the mall, or any busy public place really. bookstores, foodstores,doesn't matter.
 
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A Perv? Why, what have you done?
 
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I'm just a bit lecherious in my manner. Crack one too many innuendos that sort of thing.
 
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Originally posted by kiz
try the mall, or any busy public place really. bookstores, foodstores,doesn't matter.
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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