"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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general club/dance question

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BongDuy

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last night i went to a club. I had no problem opening up with a girl, i would just generally come out and say
"Have we met before?"
"I just thought you were really cute so i had to come over and say hi"
"hey whats your name?"

and i would just dance with them. i got rejected and denied, but that's not what my main concern is.

in a club area, where lights are flashing everywhere, and music is blasting, and girls are dancing in circles, how do you really isolate them or build rapport? I feel like whenever a girl and I get close, her friend comes down and steals her away.

It seems like dancing and trying to build rapport with a girl is impossible in these scenario, because whenever i try to talk, the girl ends up saying " what?!" and expects me to repeat myself half a dozen times. thoughts?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TheBucketOfTruth

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This is why clubs are all about male posturing and AMOG stuff. It's too loud to have anything resembling a conversation, so you either have to use your caveman game or try to get her to step out for a chat. This is one of the few benefits of being a cigarette smoker (I am not). You can say something to her like "hey want to go outside for a smoke?" and then be able to actually interact with her. This only works if you're a smoker, though.

If you're good at dancing then use that to your advantage and then go grab a drink at the bar and find a quiet spot if there is one. Clubs just want to make money so many have the music blasting so that people will drink away the awkwardness of not being able to carry on conversations with anyone.
 
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