"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Geeks vs No-Brainers

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Alright I just thought I would put up an opinioned someone shallow sort of thread here But with some support for both sides

Would you rather have a Geek or a No-Brainer?

Opinions based on definitions below. Female of course.

Definitions:
Geeky girls (HB varies from 6 - 9) Plays games, decent person all around. Easy to talk with, kinda slutty

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No Brainers (Hb caries from 6 - 9.5) Shallow, dim witted, extremely slutty, can't talk about anything other than shopping hot guys etc. kinda *****y.


Who would you pick in all honesty and with reasons explaining why?

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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lol....you think of the most random things.

Definitely the girl with Intelligence (I mean, a Personality, whoa!)
 

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I love geeks.

Low maintenance.
Have their own lives.
Can hold decent conversations.

Girls who are too hot are very... distracting.

Cute girls are good too.
 

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My experience is that a no-brainer woman will actually get phisycally uglier in my eyes as I talk to them. Theres only so much personality or looks can do individually.

That being said Id prefer an average looking geek with great personality over a gorgeous no-brainer that has the IQ of a 2x4 piece of wood.
 

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Prio - Well said my man :p Well said :p

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'll take the **** for brains.

makes it easier to drop them when it's over.
 

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Ahahaha, how do you dump a dummy?
Give them a ride in a wheelbarrow and drop them in a ditch!

lol. /lamehumour
 

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Call me weird but i can't stand non-intellegent girls.
Almost all the girls that i am "playing" with are the smarter girls.
I love to give girls inlectual challange and see how recact (just like a s**t test).

If i get physical it will only be with a smart chick, as much as i like to say i prefer 50% looks and 50% personality i just wont date a hot stupid chick.
 

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You guys do realise that girls are smarter then they portray right ??? You think they are dumb and your playing/gaming them when it most likely is the other way around.

An all round girl would do for me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You didn't read. Who taught you to read by the way lol...

I gave the definition, now pick.!!!

Me I would take the geeky girl. :p
 

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This question is a no-brainer -- for me.

Geek, hands down.
 

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Well the options don't differ much, both can be slutty and a 9!

A more challenging choice would be in the region of:
[A] geeky : HB6-7 , bla bla, not slutty [but will put out in right conditions]
no-brainer: HB8-9.5, bla bla, slutty [does anything that moves]

Now that makes an interesting choice!

Personally I'd take [A], B sounds great if you'r into that but I hate high-maintenance, and its just not worth the trouble.
 

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wtf? this isnt even a contest! The Geeky girl for SURE. I would prefer a geeky girl over ANY non-geeky girl, hands down. Probably cause I am a geek myself, it makes them seem so much cooler to me.
 
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