Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Geeks vs No-Brainers

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Alright I just thought I would put up an opinioned someone shallow sort of thread here But with some support for both sides

Would you rather have a Geek or a No-Brainer?

Opinions based on definitions below. Female of course.

Definitions:
Geeky girls (HB varies from 6 - 9) Plays games, decent person all around. Easy to talk with, kinda slutty

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No Brainers (Hb caries from 6 - 9.5) Shallow, dim witted, extremely slutty, can't talk about anything other than shopping hot guys etc. kinda *****y.


Who would you pick in all honesty and with reasons explaining why?

Smoke
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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lol....you think of the most random things.

Definitely the girl with Intelligence (I mean, a Personality, whoa!)
 

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I love geeks.

Low maintenance.
Have their own lives.
Can hold decent conversations.

Girls who are too hot are very... distracting.

Cute girls are good too.
 

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My experience is that a no-brainer woman will actually get phisycally uglier in my eyes as I talk to them. Theres only so much personality or looks can do individually.

That being said Id prefer an average looking geek with great personality over a gorgeous no-brainer that has the IQ of a 2x4 piece of wood.
 

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Prio - Well said my man :p Well said :p

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'll take the **** for brains.

makes it easier to drop them when it's over.
 

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Ahahaha, how do you dump a dummy?
Give them a ride in a wheelbarrow and drop them in a ditch!

lol. /lamehumour
 

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Call me weird but i can't stand non-intellegent girls.
Almost all the girls that i am "playing" with are the smarter girls.
I love to give girls inlectual challange and see how recact (just like a s**t test).

If i get physical it will only be with a smart chick, as much as i like to say i prefer 50% looks and 50% personality i just wont date a hot stupid chick.
 

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You guys do realise that girls are smarter then they portray right ??? You think they are dumb and your playing/gaming them when it most likely is the other way around.

An all round girl would do for me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You didn't read. Who taught you to read by the way lol...

I gave the definition, now pick.!!!

Me I would take the geeky girl. :p
 

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This question is a no-brainer -- for me.

Geek, hands down.
 

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Well the options don't differ much, both can be slutty and a 9!

A more challenging choice would be in the region of:
[A] geeky : HB6-7 , bla bla, not slutty [but will put out in right conditions]
no-brainer: HB8-9.5, bla bla, slutty [does anything that moves]

Now that makes an interesting choice!

Personally I'd take [A], B sounds great if you'r into that but I hate high-maintenance, and its just not worth the trouble.
 

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wtf? this isnt even a contest! The Geeky girl for SURE. I would prefer a geeky girl over ANY non-geeky girl, hands down. Probably cause I am a geek myself, it makes them seem so much cooler to me.
 
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