Hi,
Some women lock eyes and may keep the eye contact for five seconds, even longer without ever breaking it before they go out of field of vision. But there's no smile despite it should be obvious to both that we're staring each other. No preening, no fidgeting, nothing visible atleast.
Example 1. Yesterday a younger woman on a park bench. I saw she was looking at me from distance as I walk by. Closer I locked into her eyes. She didn't smile, she didn't drop her yaw either. Eyes locked for atleast five seconds until I had to turn my head quite a lot to see her. I gave her a smile and turned away.
Example 2. Gym a couple days ago. Two 20+ gym chicks working out next to me. I saw them checking me out, and briefly I did too. Later they walked towards me in a corridor. I try to be polite at gym and I look slightly sideways past them but I see they look at me. I wouldn't just stare a wall all the way so as we're closing I look forward. BOTH have shameless, direct eye contact and they wouldn't break. But no smile, just intense gaze. Pretty bold at the gym. I was a little baffled given my age but for some reason younger women (girls) often give me long looks. Maybe I should start capitalizing on it
What's up with staring so long with no visible emotion? I know what it means if someone repeteadly stares from distance and breaks away when eye contact happens - shy interest/evaluation/you look nice. But it's different boldly eye to eye, it feels fairly cold, aggressive even creepy by nature actually. Is it?
How should I respond to see what the true intention is? A smile, wink what? What response I should look for? Or should I wait the her to give herself away or is gazing actually a way for her to say 'see me'. Or is it too little to draw any meaningful conclusions.
Some women lock eyes and may keep the eye contact for five seconds, even longer without ever breaking it before they go out of field of vision. But there's no smile despite it should be obvious to both that we're staring each other. No preening, no fidgeting, nothing visible atleast.
Example 1. Yesterday a younger woman on a park bench. I saw she was looking at me from distance as I walk by. Closer I locked into her eyes. She didn't smile, she didn't drop her yaw either. Eyes locked for atleast five seconds until I had to turn my head quite a lot to see her. I gave her a smile and turned away.
Example 2. Gym a couple days ago. Two 20+ gym chicks working out next to me. I saw them checking me out, and briefly I did too. Later they walked towards me in a corridor. I try to be polite at gym and I look slightly sideways past them but I see they look at me. I wouldn't just stare a wall all the way so as we're closing I look forward. BOTH have shameless, direct eye contact and they wouldn't break. But no smile, just intense gaze. Pretty bold at the gym. I was a little baffled given my age but for some reason younger women (girls) often give me long looks. Maybe I should start capitalizing on it
What's up with staring so long with no visible emotion? I know what it means if someone repeteadly stares from distance and breaks away when eye contact happens - shy interest/evaluation/you look nice. But it's different boldly eye to eye, it feels fairly cold, aggressive even creepy by nature actually. Is it?
How should I respond to see what the true intention is? A smile, wink what? What response I should look for? Or should I wait the her to give herself away or is gazing actually a way for her to say 'see me'. Or is it too little to draw any meaningful conclusions.
