"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Gay guys the TRUE DJs???

Sniper2k

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I have no problem with gay guys, as long as they don't try anything sexual with me I'm cool with them. But I do sorta envy them in a way. There's this guy at my school who "acts" completely gay, or should I say just "feminine." He rarely hangs out with other guys, in fact I don't think he even has a "guy" friend. This kid hangs with the girls at EVERY chance he gets. You'da think this guy is an AFC but he is FAR from it. This kid is butt ugly but he can get a chick sitting on his lap eating a doggy treat from his hand in less than a second. This kid is loud as fvck! He always speaks his mind and is not afraid to do so, no matter how stupid or "gay" it may sound. He always teases the girls he meets and flirts with them alot, but he also shows so much compassion to them, making them feel loved almost like a sister. The girls practically love him to death even though if he was any less of a man he'd be practically wearing a tampon. I thought this would turn them off, but instead they are all over him. My assumption is that he has the confidence to be who he is, even if it is not accepted by many, especially males. It astounds me of how girly he acts but gets the girls at the same time.

What are your thoughts on this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tails

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he is very very gay and i think you should smash him good.
 

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He gets no girl at all, have you seen him kissing girls or something?
a girl sitting in your lap means nothing at least for me :D
 

jnallen

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Sniper...

Nope...Dead wrong...

Point is he has no interest in her so he "listens" to her...

That all ends and she loses interest...

So for now he is "golden"...Later she loses interest...

It's called "Emotional Tampon"

JNA
 

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There's a guy just like that in my program. He's very social with the girls and effeminate guys. He brings stuffed animals to school and sets them up at his workstation and acts like a flaming homo in the way he carry's himself and speaks. It sort of irritates me that he's so comfortable being such a homo because he treats the computer lab like his living room at times and he's always buzzing around chatting girls up and giving them attention. I'm hardly jealous of him though for the obvious reason that he'll never get laid by any of those girls, he's most likely just the token gay friend ever gal needs to have these days, and at best an emotional tampon.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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