"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Gay guys arent cool.

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Originally posted by BrotherAP
When a girl says 'All the cute guys are gay' what she means is 'If they don't want to **** ME, they must be gay' when really she's just pissed off that they're not noticing her. That, and there's that stereotype about gay guys working out and being built.

I've known a few girls who have told me exactly why they like having gay guy friends - and it's pretty much the same reason that they like having AFC guy friends. Heck, I'm not sure the girls really differentiate between the gay friend and the friend that they'd never sleep with, except girl actually fall in love with the gay guy occasionally where as the AFC always gets the short end of the stick. Back on point, according to these girls, they like gay guys because they don't feel any sexual tension. They like having 'guy friends' that they know aren't trying to sleep with them.

Great point.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by exwhyzee
Girls are crazy. Some girls like to hang out with gay guys, I like girls, but do not like gay guys. So my question is how do you neutralize a gay person who is taking a lot of attention from the girls you are with. Is it best to just avoid girls when they are with their "cute gay friend" or can somthing be done/said to make you like like the man and extremely desireable in such a situation?
I think gay guys have tons of things to teach us, look at them, the way they handle women, the way they get close to them, the way they arent intimidated at all around them, and all of this is because gay guys know that theres no chance of sexual relations, so this takes the stress out of a relationship. When we talk with women, we should also prepare our minds in a similar fashion, forget about getting laid, love, and all of that, simply be a FRIEND and do not think about anything else, once you feel comfortable with a person and they start to open up, you can switch to a more agressive role.
 

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Originally posted by salsipuedes
I think gay guys have tons of things to teach us, look at them, the way they handle women, the way they get close to them, the way they arent intimidated at all around them, and all of this is because gay guys know that theres no chance of sexual relations, so this takes the stress out of a relationship. When we talk with women, we should also prepare our minds in a similar fashion, forget about getting laid, love, and all of that, simply be a FRIEND and do not think about anything else, once you feel comfortable with a person and they start to open up, you can switch to a more agressive role.
You must be new here. Gay guys have nothing to teach us about women, if you want to learn how to attract women, learn from guys who actually are very good with attracting and picking up women.

Originally posted by BrotherAP
I've known a few girls who have told me exactly why they like having gay guy friends - and it's pretty much the same reason that they like having AFC guy friends. Heck, I'm not sure the girls really differentiate between the gay friend and the friend that they'd never sleep with,

Agree 100%

Here is the best example of Gay guy friends=AFC Guy Friends

http://www.ryanmcfaul.com/mirror/gb_medium.html

can you tell the difference? neither could I.
 

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