"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Gay guys arent cool.

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Originally posted by BrotherAP
When a girl says 'All the cute guys are gay' what she means is 'If they don't want to **** ME, they must be gay' when really she's just pissed off that they're not noticing her. That, and there's that stereotype about gay guys working out and being built.

I've known a few girls who have told me exactly why they like having gay guy friends - and it's pretty much the same reason that they like having AFC guy friends. Heck, I'm not sure the girls really differentiate between the gay friend and the friend that they'd never sleep with, except girl actually fall in love with the gay guy occasionally where as the AFC always gets the short end of the stick. Back on point, according to these girls, they like gay guys because they don't feel any sexual tension. They like having 'guy friends' that they know aren't trying to sleep with them.

Great point.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by exwhyzee
Girls are crazy. Some girls like to hang out with gay guys, I like girls, but do not like gay guys. So my question is how do you neutralize a gay person who is taking a lot of attention from the girls you are with. Is it best to just avoid girls when they are with their "cute gay friend" or can somthing be done/said to make you like like the man and extremely desireable in such a situation?
I think gay guys have tons of things to teach us, look at them, the way they handle women, the way they get close to them, the way they arent intimidated at all around them, and all of this is because gay guys know that theres no chance of sexual relations, so this takes the stress out of a relationship. When we talk with women, we should also prepare our minds in a similar fashion, forget about getting laid, love, and all of that, simply be a FRIEND and do not think about anything else, once you feel comfortable with a person and they start to open up, you can switch to a more agressive role.
 

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Originally posted by salsipuedes
I think gay guys have tons of things to teach us, look at them, the way they handle women, the way they get close to them, the way they arent intimidated at all around them, and all of this is because gay guys know that theres no chance of sexual relations, so this takes the stress out of a relationship. When we talk with women, we should also prepare our minds in a similar fashion, forget about getting laid, love, and all of that, simply be a FRIEND and do not think about anything else, once you feel comfortable with a person and they start to open up, you can switch to a more agressive role.
You must be new here. Gay guys have nothing to teach us about women, if you want to learn how to attract women, learn from guys who actually are very good with attracting and picking up women.

Originally posted by BrotherAP
I've known a few girls who have told me exactly why they like having gay guy friends - and it's pretty much the same reason that they like having AFC guy friends. Heck, I'm not sure the girls really differentiate between the gay friend and the friend that they'd never sleep with,

Agree 100%

Here is the best example of Gay guy friends=AFC Guy Friends

http://www.ryanmcfaul.com/mirror/gb_medium.html

can you tell the difference? neither could I.
 

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