"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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gay guy approached me today

bilboteabaggins

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I am coming out of my favorite restaurant today and I notice a flaming gay dude checking me out, I walk by to get in my car and he yells "hey pinky" I had on a nice pink plaid hollister shirt...I say "did you holler at me?" he said "yes, I noticed you walking by and just had to ask you if you were gay?" I reply "no sir I am not" he says "would you happen to be bi then?" I say "haha, no sorry about that" he says "thanks for answering and have a good day" really quickly I thought about it and asked him "what made you approach me thinking I was gay, the pink shirt?" he says "no, I didn't think you were gay, you were just so hot that I had to take the chance and ask you about it" I said "well thanks, have a good one"

I would lean towards being a metro kinda guy, I love to take care of my hair(bathroom full of products), keep my face perfect with designer stubble, always wear the best threads, have tons of shoes, a massive collection of ralph lauren/a&f/hollister, a cologne for different occasions, in pretty good shape and packing on muscle/cutting fat as we speak and I walk around with a aura of arrogance/alpha-ness but am somewhat polite to people at the same time when spoken to, bottom line I took this as a compliment because this queer thinks like any other female would, so flame on, but I am not going to knockout some fag for saying I am good looking, that is just redneck

anyone else had this happen?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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magickarl

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Not to me personally, I keep sort of a gruff manly-man appearence, but I have a friend who dresses really metro-pretty boy and he gets hit on by a lot of gay dudes. Though I do remember one time me and him were out at Denny's and a gay guy asked if I was the butch. Cracked me up lol. Come to think about it, he was wearing a pink button down that day.

I wouldn't worry about it though, he gets more female action than anybody I know by a wide margin.
 

bilboteabaggins

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I am not worried guys LOL I am 100% down with the poon, was just wondering how much this **** happens to others
 

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Happens to me all the time. We have a lot in common.

So, we should grab a drink some time. How's Monday work for you?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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neghitzbrah

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If you ever lived in NYC then you have had to be hit on by a gay guy. What's the big deal though?
 

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The best part about this whole thing is that everyone is just assuming you had some huge issue with this. Even though you have clearly stated it was not a big deal.
 

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Happens to me frequently too, with a couple of really funny ones; was waiting on a bus stop a few years back, about 12am. A car passes by across the street, stops and a dude comes out. He asks me for directions, and then asks me if I am going that way and offers me a ride. I decline, and start walking away as my bus is approaching, and I hear him whistle and says nice butt.

Another time 2 of my friends and I went to another friend's of ours housewarming party. He is gay, and the place was gull of gay dudes; not a girl in sight. We quickly became the main attraction and they were trying to get us drunk. Sort of backfired on them, as we are Russians and we were all drinking vodka. Needless to say we stayed pretty sober, while everyone else were on the floor.

Good times.
 

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bilboteabaggins said:
anyone else had this happen?
:yes:

Yes, all the time with me.
I just recently had a guy offer me $1000 dollars to give me head. No Joke.
Its unwanted but I take it as a compliment.
 
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