"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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gay guy approached me today

bilboteabaggins

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I am coming out of my favorite restaurant today and I notice a flaming gay dude checking me out, I walk by to get in my car and he yells "hey pinky" I had on a nice pink plaid hollister shirt...I say "did you holler at me?" he said "yes, I noticed you walking by and just had to ask you if you were gay?" I reply "no sir I am not" he says "would you happen to be bi then?" I say "haha, no sorry about that" he says "thanks for answering and have a good day" really quickly I thought about it and asked him "what made you approach me thinking I was gay, the pink shirt?" he says "no, I didn't think you were gay, you were just so hot that I had to take the chance and ask you about it" I said "well thanks, have a good one"

I would lean towards being a metro kinda guy, I love to take care of my hair(bathroom full of products), keep my face perfect with designer stubble, always wear the best threads, have tons of shoes, a massive collection of ralph lauren/a&f/hollister, a cologne for different occasions, in pretty good shape and packing on muscle/cutting fat as we speak and I walk around with a aura of arrogance/alpha-ness but am somewhat polite to people at the same time when spoken to, bottom line I took this as a compliment because this queer thinks like any other female would, so flame on, but I am not going to knockout some fag for saying I am good looking, that is just redneck

anyone else had this happen?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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magickarl

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Not to me personally, I keep sort of a gruff manly-man appearence, but I have a friend who dresses really metro-pretty boy and he gets hit on by a lot of gay dudes. Though I do remember one time me and him were out at Denny's and a gay guy asked if I was the butch. Cracked me up lol. Come to think about it, he was wearing a pink button down that day.

I wouldn't worry about it though, he gets more female action than anybody I know by a wide margin.
 

bilboteabaggins

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I am not worried guys LOL I am 100% down with the poon, was just wondering how much this **** happens to others
 

Iceberg

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Happens to me all the time. We have a lot in common.

So, we should grab a drink some time. How's Monday work for you?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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neghitzbrah

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If you ever lived in NYC then you have had to be hit on by a gay guy. What's the big deal though?
 

PDubb75

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The best part about this whole thing is that everyone is just assuming you had some huge issue with this. Even though you have clearly stated it was not a big deal.
 

pinhas

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Happens to me frequently too, with a couple of really funny ones; was waiting on a bus stop a few years back, about 12am. A car passes by across the street, stops and a dude comes out. He asks me for directions, and then asks me if I am going that way and offers me a ride. I decline, and start walking away as my bus is approaching, and I hear him whistle and says nice butt.

Another time 2 of my friends and I went to another friend's of ours housewarming party. He is gay, and the place was gull of gay dudes; not a girl in sight. We quickly became the main attraction and they were trying to get us drunk. Sort of backfired on them, as we are Russians and we were all drinking vodka. Needless to say we stayed pretty sober, while everyone else were on the floor.

Good times.
 

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bilboteabaggins said:
anyone else had this happen?
:yes:

Yes, all the time with me.
I just recently had a guy offer me $1000 dollars to give me head. No Joke.
Its unwanted but I take it as a compliment.
 
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