"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Gauging Interest

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SmoothOperator

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I'm working on this girl I'm interested in, but I'm having trouble reading her. She may be giving signs one way or the other, but I'm pretty clueless with the opposite sex so I can't really tell if she's just being friendly or is actually interested.

I'll start by describing her. I don't see her with a lot of guys because she's not great looking, maybe 6.5-7, although I think she's cute. She's a lot of fun, too, and that's what got me interested in her.

I took her out to lunch and that may have incerased her interest and afterwards, she started playing with my camera phone and taking pictures of us together, but most people do that when they see my phone. She asked her friend for my AIM screen name and now she keeps alluding to us getting together more often, but friends do this, too. We were out dancing once and she danced with me a few times, but girls love to dance so I never knew what to make of that.

So tell me, guys. Am I stupid for questioning her interest, or am I stupid for thinking it's there?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Flame me if im wrong, but i think she has interest in you, go for it.
 
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It seems like she is interested. ;)

Just make sure to gradually move along without stalling, so you two don't actually become close "friends". :cool:

Hehe.
 
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