"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So I guess this is me taking the second step, putting it all into action and forcing myself to start getting better through fear of embarrassment and the like. This is mostly for my records but I love criticism so feel free to chip in with advice

My goals for the next few weeks are pretty simple
1. Get school under control (bombing all my classes because of my bout with depression from losing "the love of my life" which I'm now aware was BS
2. Get in shape
3. Get in the DJ mindset
4. Learn my music stuff (Piano, Guitar, Harmonica...Vocals?)

How To?
1. Just do my homework, tests are easy
2. Don't eat like a fat man, get a Y membership since I can for like 25 bucks, Use said Y pass
3. Religiously reading both HS and regular DJ Bibles....pun intended...and doing the 8 week DJ boot camp
4. Spend an hour each night rotating throughout each, official guitar lesson Wednesdays


So Boom! It's out there now, thanks for the welcome on my crybaby thread and let's start making each other better, sexier, wittier people.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yesterday went from practicing eye contact and confidence to just hangin' with some buddies of mine, ran into them at the mall and women aren't everything...or anything really, just a pastime now. (albeit one I'm terrible at) So that was my Wednesday, work and school until next Monday.
 

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Watch out, the bootcamp may suddenly kick your ass a couple weeks into it. It'll start demanding effort and time from your part.

Elaborate on your physical form? A couple of us here believe we are way too qualified in nutrition science and sport science.
 

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5' 11" well built but a little chub(the kind you can only tell when the shirts off), 170 lbs. Not entirely sure what other information you'd want. Been eating 1 or 2 meals a day since I became single, not a dieting thing, just I don't eat when I'm sad kind of thing. Thoughts?
 

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Thursday draws to a close, new chick LJBFed me. She got a new boyfriend too :p

Whatever, made progress on my piano skills, worked on eye contact at work (consultant at best buy) felt good and made some new friends. going bowling with some coworkers Sunday.

Cons: Ate like a pig, Let my ex stay on my mind, Didn't approach anybody I didn't have to from work

Goals for Friday: start getting caught up in school, Not die at work, Play guitar when I get home

Much love to anyone who reads this...or those who don't. No reason to hate anybody.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Worked all weekend, no free-time. I hate 12 hour shifts. Managed to still get my week one challenges in at work, plenty of cute chicks looking for a computer for college.

Got a rock climbing date with this catholic school girl, that should be fun. Making progress, little by little.

Still not entirely sure if there's some format for this I should be following or not, but I'm going to keep doing what I'm doing until somebody corrects me.
 

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Finally got my internet back

Lost my internet, without my daily dose of DJ I fell back into oneitis again. But a weird version of it, I've been focusing on eating right and jogging and other health related crap, got into and out of drugs, but no pursuit of women because I was just disinterested.

My computer once again has internet connection and I missed you guys, so I'm back.

Goals?

None yet, open to suggestions.
 
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