Ganji'ed a woman, now it's getting interesting

[EternalStudent]

Hey, DJ's.

Met a girl that I had a connection with. We went out a few times and things were looking pretty good -- until I found out she has a boyfriend. Now I don't know if it's on the decline, if she's bored, etc.

Anyway, I Ganji'ed this girl completely -- no email, no phone calls, NOTHING.

A couple months pass. We have some mutual friends. Now she has been asking around if I am pissed off or angry with her. I am not. If anything was going to be able to happen between us, I need to be able to trust her. If things continued on that path, I know I would not be able to do that.

She asked one of my friends about me last week. He, being the good friend he is, told her I was busy with my job and travelling. He advised I talk to her.

I'm just wondering what your thoughts are and how you would handle this situation? I certainly would like to see where things stand with her, but I'm not sure if it would seem odd if I tried calling her now.

Let's hear your thoughts!

 

[Monster]

Ganji? What is that? Isn't that some card game?

 

[Bvbidd]

I think it means just cutting contact with a girl.

 

[ducaro]

i thought you meant 'Ganja' the 'entertainment shrub' that is smoked in south asia... cuz thats why the topic sounded interesting to me.. lol.. 'ganji'ed a woman, now its getting interesting'...:crackup:

 

[SaucyBoy]

I thought it meant you fvcked her and then broke contact. Then I thought of Mahatma Gandhi and I know he would never do anything like that......

 

[ketostix]

If things were going well like you said, why would you Ganji her because she had a BF? I believe Ganji was a last ditched effort to get a girl interested in you that LJBF'ed you.

 

[Ace of Flames]

How about we drop the stupid term and just let him say what the hell he meant by it?

 

[backbreaker]

alot of people haven't been here that long. Gangi games are an ole time term.


The thing aobut Ganji games are.. if you didn't fvck her THEN.. they really didn't work

 

[EternalStudent]

I spent some more time thinking about this -- hey, if her goal was to get her on my mind after a few months, it worked.

I realized that the initial reason I cut contact was because she had a boyfriend I didn't know about and then informed me later. I can't be the part-time lover -- it's not what I want.


Guess I made up my own mind and started second guessing myself. Thanks for chiming in though.