“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Ganji'ed a woman, now it's getting interesting

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EternalStudent

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Hey, DJ's.

Met a girl that I had a connection with. We went out a few times and things were looking pretty good -- until I found out she has a boyfriend. Now I don't know if it's on the decline, if she's bored, etc.

Anyway, I Ganji'ed this girl completely -- no email, no phone calls, NOTHING.

A couple months pass. We have some mutual friends. Now she has been asking around if I am pissed off or angry with her. I am not. If anything was going to be able to happen between us, I need to be able to trust her. If things continued on that path, I know I would not be able to do that.

She asked one of my friends about me last week. He, being the good friend he is, told her I was busy with my job and travelling. He advised I talk to her.

I'm just wondering what your thoughts are and how you would handle this situation? I certainly would like to see where things stand with her, but I'm not sure if it would seem odd if I tried calling her now.

Let's hear your thoughts!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bvbidd

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I think it means just cutting contact with a girl.
 
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i thought you meant 'Ganja' the 'entertainment shrub' that is smoked in south asia... cuz thats why the topic sounded interesting to me.. lol.. 'ganji'ed a woman, now its getting interesting'...:crackup:
 
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I thought it meant you fvcked her and then broke contact. Then I thought of Mahatma Gandhi and I know he would never do anything like that......
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If things were going well like you said, why would you Ganji her because she had a BF? I believe Ganji was a last ditched effort to get a girl interested in you that LJBF'ed you.
 
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alot of people haven't been here that long. Gangi games are an ole time term.


The thing aobut Ganji games are.. if you didn't fvck her THEN.. they really didn't work
 
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I spent some more time thinking about this -- hey, if her goal was to get her on my mind after a few months, it worked.

I realized that the initial reason I cut contact was because she had a boyfriend I didn't know about and then informed me later. I can't be the part-time lover -- it's not what I want.


Guess I made up my own mind and started second guessing myself. Thanks for chiming in though.
 
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