Ganji Games: "A Last Ditch Effort To Get The Girl"

[hayabusa]

I ganjied some chick I was crazy about.I managed to for a long time,I resisted the urge to call her every day and to send her sms,since she wasn't sending me any back.It worked at the gym she was all over me.Though I screwed up with her later,calling her all the time.
Once you pull it out try to keep it.

 

[the_great_gaia]

yeah, i'd say...

Te Te wasn't calling me or texting me. But I have been ganji-ing her for 2 days now, and she texted me last night as 10:18pm saying "How Was Your Day?". LOL>> Its kinda late to be asking me how my day went LATE AT NIGHT, right? LOL. She couldn't go thru the day without contacting me, so I did it for her. I waited until 12:04am to reply "It was str8".. and thats it!

She called me this morning, SURPRIZINGLY, at 9:43am. I decided to answer the phone, and when I did, she goes "Good Morning!"

I was like, "Hey, wassup, I have a formation to go to so I'mma call you back, I'mma call you back!" Then I hung the phone up. LOL. I'm not going to call her back. Yea right. I still like her a lot, but I like ganji-ing her MORE. This stuff really works. I promise.

 

[juice veteran]

well,well,well just reread the thread for the 3rd time. think i've got it now. anyways since I got hit with the LJBF on tuesday I been ganji'n like a mofo. yesterday she called me 4 times! and then sent this text "so you're either busy or avoiding me do you wanna meet up for a drink? hope all is well" it was hard but I didn't crack the fact I was boning a 19 yr old australian at the time kinda helped!

I am interested to see what happens with this....

 

[sandman6991]

Hmm...I'm Ganjing this girl in my class just because the name Ganji is bad as hell

 

[the_great_gaia]

check me out!!

I don't talk to Te Te for a few days, then she text'd me saying
"How Are you?"
Me: "Real good, and u?"
Her: "I'm straight"
Me: "That's Good"
Her: "Yea. It was nice hearing from you."
Me: "Same here. What are you doing?"
Her: "Just chillin. and you?"
Me: "Bout to go smoke."
Her: "Thats wassup"
Me: "Yea. Hit me up later."
Her: "ok"

She didn't hit me up, so i decided to fvck with her head some more. I called her private and she answered and I was like "Hey, wassup!"

She was like "hey, hold on, ok? hold on!" and she clicked over to another call, so I hung up and put my phone on silence and went to sleep.

She called like 10 mins later and i didn't hear it cause i put my phone on silence, then she sent me a text me saying "I guess you can't answer your phone like always.."

I read it this morning, lol. Now i'm not gonna call her at all for today, which is tuesday. i'm so f'kin evil

 

[juice veteran]

^that aint ganji gaia, thats playing hard to get. lock her off for real for like 2 weeks then see whats up. (read the whole thread, its a gold mine dude)

anyway i get another text yesterday, something about an umbrella i lent her keeping her dry. I'll admit it made me crack a smile and that old AFC monster wanted to text back something sweet. But the juan in me was apathetic to say the least, I got other ladies to keep me occupied so if you wanna see me, earn it.

 

[juice veteran]

i was busy last night, but then i noticed i had a voicemail from her inviting me to a party she was having at her place. it was the closest i've got to cracking yet, but at the end she said i can bring someone if i want, which i am sure was some stooopid test. anyway i just ignored it like everything else.

whats strange is that before i got hit with the LJBF i was the one doing the calling, not all the time like a total AFC but definately the majority. Now she's been calling me and texting since saturday and I have just been ignoring her, you'd have thought she would give up. Anyway i think i was rude to ignore someone's party invitation, but i'll stick with ganji for now.

Sure could do with some advice from jocksivs or any other ganji guru's if they're around....

 

[the_great_gaia]

holy ****, i'm finally a senior don juan, lol!

 

[Incog]

i was busy last night, but then i noticed i had a voicemail from her inviting me to a party she was having at her place. it was the closest i've got to cracking yet, but at the end she said i can bring someone if i want, which i am sure was some stooopid test. anyway i just ignored it like everything else.

whats strange is that before i got hit with the LJBF i was the one doing the calling, not all the time like a total AFC but definately the majority. Now she's been calling me and texting since saturday and I have just been ignoring her, you'd have thought she would give up. Anyway i think i was rude to ignore someone's party invitation, but i'll stick with ganji for now.

Sure could do with some advice from jocksivs or any other ganji guru's if they're around....

Giving in now will not do you any good. Although she is probably not aware of it, these calls are cries for the attention that she has been accustomed to recieving from you. She's "testing the waters" for remaining attraction.

 

[juice veteran]

^cheers. I still havent cracked! havent heard from her since the voicemail

 

[the_great_gaia]

i cracked. but i'm wondering, even after you crack, is ganji-ing still an option?

 

[juice veteran]

ok so she called again last night, three times. twice when i was hanging out with my buddy who was kinda depressed so i didnt feel like talking to her then i noticed another missed call this morning at like 3am when i was asleep.

It's been two weeks since she invited me to the party and i've been running PROPER ganji with no cracking for nearly a month. It's been tough, but i guess it's payed off.

Now i need advice on how to handle this: she is clearly seeking some kind of validation from me as no one has treated her like this before. She also had a boyfriend, I am assuming she still does.

Any advice appreciated I dont want to blow this after all the great ganji'ing

 

[PhatE1vis]

I'm not convinced about the value of ganji. It seems like it takes SO much effort - it's an active pursuit that drains you of your energy. As evidenced by this thread, you guys doing the ganji thing are thinking about her every move, whether or not she has a bf, tallying up the number of calls from her that you didn't crack for, etc. Is this really DJ, or desperation?

And believe me, I'm not throwing stones as I've been there and have tried it. It just doesn't seem worth it.

Would it be better to move on for real? You'd still be ganji-ing, kind of a "ganji by proxy" driven by your pursuit of bettering yourself in whatever form.

Thoughts?

 

[juice veteran]

I'm not convinced about the value of ganji. It seems like it takes SO much effort - it's an active pursuit that drains you of your energy. As evidenced by this thread, you guys doing the ganji thing are thinking about her every move, whether or not she has a bf, tallying up the number of calls from her that you didn't crack for, etc. Is this really DJ, or desperation?

And believe me, I'm not throwing stones as I've been there and have tried it. It just doesn't seem worth it.

Would it be better to move on for real? You'd still be ganji-ing, kind of a "ganji by proxy" driven by your pursuit of bettering yourself in whatever form.

Thoughts?

I think there's truth in what you're saying, I mean do still think about her (dropped all those other plates unfortunately!). But if i didnt ever hear about ganji or this site i would have probably done something stupidly AFC like send flowers or even worse a love letter.

Instead i took the LJBF on the chin and broke all contact - now she's calling me! but i am ignoring her and actively approaching women, doesnt sound like a lot i know but trust me i've never really approached a girl before. With the information i've learned here and other places i managed to get 2 kcloses and a # close all at the same party. i've got a long way to go but i am on the DJ road.

What i really need help with is how to handle it when she calls again.......

 

[the_great_gaia]

umm i don't know what happened. i stopped keeping up, and i got over her. lol. i don't call no more, i don't think about her or nothing. she'll call every blue moon to try to get me to do her favors, but i don't do em, i just give her false hope. i wouldn't mind talking to Te Te again, because I don't care at all about being with her. I met this really hot chic yesterday, and... i don't care about her either. HAHAHAH!! I almost can't believe I posted Te Te in this legendary thread. I shoulda just left her alone from the get-go. That was like the biggest time of my time, but it's okay. i feel so free and happier now. This is the ending result of ganji games. YOU WILL NOT LOSE! I promise. I can careless about any chic right now, I just fyck em and bounce. LOL!! What more can I say?? What good is a woman for once your heart has become as black as mine?? I have the ultimate feeling right now, and I'm feeling DAMN good about myself. LOL!! Ganji games is an absolute MUST!

 

[juice veteran]

splendid work gaia. i am not quite there yet but i am approaching your ganji nirvana

 

[vicd2006]

Using Gangi to get her back - what are the odds?

Here's my story - what are your thoughts?

Earlier in the year I was pursued by a HB. I was not initially interested in her but as time went on she grew on me. Started a serious relationship with her and a couple of things made me believe she was "the one"
- amazing connection
- she told me she's never been so attracted to anyone
- she told me she's never had such good sex
- we talked about families / kids etc.

However we disagreed about where we wanted to live (I'm in LA she's in SF) and this eroded the excitement of the relationship over time to the point where I broke up with her after around 6 months of dating. The breakup was done in a very nice way and we agreed to keep things open in the event we might get back together in the future.

A couple of months later I realized that I could actually resolve the location issues and decided I really wanted to get back with her (figured she was really "the one") so I strategized:

My analysis focused on understanding her character and developing a "get da biatch back" plan around that:
- she loves confident, aggressive guys
- she's very keen (desperate!) to get married soon
- she has low self-esteem and is insecure (typical of HBs!!)
- she needs excitement / stimulation in her rather boring life

So I started to call her leaving confident voicemails and emails (positive, upbeat, flattering, not needy in any way) painting a picture of how rosy a future together would be.

Her responses were pretty muted.

I persisted to demonstrate my scencerity and responses became even more sparse to the point where there was nothing.

I figured she was already seeing someone but decided to continue to pursue her (showing confidence and aggression - no neediness) and then cut off all contact (hardcore Ganji) as soon as she told me she was seeing someone - hoping the sudden cut-off would trigger an emotional reaction a couple of weeks down the line.

During my pursuit, I did finally get a response saying she was serious with someone else (as expected) and responded in a polite, gentlemany way and then went into Ganji mode.

I'm now executing a hardcore Ganji strategy hoping she'll:
- get bored of / break up with the new guy as typically happens with these types of HBs
- realize what she missed
- develop a big fat crush on me

So, I'm betting that hardcore Ganji triggers a set of reactions in the unconscious mind that take time (weeks / months) to work through.

So far I've only been in hardcore Ganji mode for 1 week (obviously no contact from her) so I guess I'll have to wait a while longer for any results. Of course I've moved on and am dating other HBs. But this chick did get under my skin so I want to maximize my chances of getting her back.

What are the odds this strategy will work?

 

[Unprez]

in my opinoin if she's wit a man and she's insecure chances are she aint gonna break up wit him for some time so based on the ganji tactic it might not apply that well.... i myself have started ganji'n a girl who i was a nice guy too , stupid me for not comin across this site earlier b4 i met her but mine is a little different in that i punked her first for bein so immature cuz all she does is party ...dont know how long i should ganji her for cuz i did insult her but its only to take away any sign that i still like her ..which i still do lol..dont know how long i should though

 

[Incog]

What are the odds this strategy will work?

It's probably dependent on her current relationship's stability. When they break-up, you will be recieving a text message or a call. Before then, I wouldn't count on it, unless her boyfriend's a chump (she'll get bored)

 

[juice veteran]

seriously i hardcore ganjied without a crack and i've come to the conclusion that it didnt work. girls are intuitive and they can smell this **** a mile off.

in retrospect here is how i would have played it:
when i get LJBF i laugh in her face like its nothing and say something along the lines of johnny sorporno - "i cant promise to be your friend, but i can promise that nothing will happen between us unless we both want it to"

when she texts i ignore, but when she calls me asking me out sometimes i go, and concentrate on having fun and amusing myself - this attracts her, i isolate, escalte, close. BAM

what happened: i ignored all her calls and texts - never got the mythical 'pleading' call/text. instead got a sharp texting saying i was being childish and that she wouldnt beg for my friendship

unless you guys know better i'd say all was lost

ganji = reactive, beta there are better ways to handle it guys