"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Gaming while smoking weed..
- Thread starter cola
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Unbridled_Phoenix
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Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Unbridled_Phoenix said:
Visine is for amateurs. Try this stuff:
http://ep.yimg.com/ip/I/yhst-29523360387793_2049_460418633
It's Baush and Laumb Opcon A, and about 8-10 bucks a bottle, I think. It makes your eyes burn like fire, turn even redder, and then a minute later turn a brilliant white.
pooparu
Senior Don Juan
NOOOO use Rohto, the drops of real men, trust me, I've used every eye drop from the US and even some from like Taiwan and China, and the best is rohto by far imo.Bible_Belt said:
When I blaze one of two things happen:
1. I don't really get self conscious (except that I'm black so I'm always worried if I get cotton mouth ima be lookin like Tyrone biggums) but if a girl is acting how girls work (trying to play games, etc etc) and isn't entertaining me I will literally just get up and walk away without another word, I don't like my high being blown.
2. I get ****ing more awesome and i stay in the "flow" longer than I would sober.
I used to be able to do a few hits to feel good, but since I became a MMJ patient I run through like an eigth every day or two so nowdays I guess you could say that my normal game is when I'm high and my "high" game is when we face like three huge js, but that's not everyone.
When I'm not b lazed I honestly find it just as hard/easy depending on my mood, weed lifts me up but it doesn't change me as a person, but I have been smoking for quite some time so maybe that's not for everyone.
Cola, if you can you should try to get sativas for when you go out and indicas for girls who come to your house/when you want to go to sleep, the body high is perfect for late night chillen whereas the heady, up high of sativas like Jack Hehrer will keep you up literally for HOURS even when you WANT to go to sleep.
Alright I feel like an enthusiast now and not having posted frequently here in years makes it seem like I left so suave a boy and came back...
a nug.
intrextrovert
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When actually high it can go either way.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
BongDuy
Master Don Juan
