"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Gaming when you're tired

Exhumed

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Anyone here who goes to high school/college probably realizes you have to be looking and feeling good almost all of the time if you want to succeed socially...in high school I had to wake up at 6 every morning, and I'm no morning person, so that killed my social skills...I'll have to wake up at 10 when I start college, which is much more reasonable, but I figure it's still worth discussing...how do you guys game when you're tired?

I find it's very difficult to convey the same level of confidence and charisma when I'm tired, but at the same time if I see a cute girl I'm not going to let tiredness stop me from talking to her...unfortunately I'm still less successful when I haven't slept well, but that's almost inevitable. :)

So what do you guys do differently when you're tired from waking up early?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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619joe

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Well man there are different ways to look at it.

One one hand, many will say that being tired is used as a form of excuse and it is. Stating that,being tired,is just an internal thing and that you can get past it easily and that its all about confidence. That no matter how tired you are,your performance should always be up to par.

I disagree though. Theres no doubt that tiredness/lack of sleep affects physical and mental performance and thats a fact. So naturally the brains thinking process is affected. Not so much so that you start forgetting all key steps to a pickup but just mere little details you may forget to remember. Not to mention what lack of sleep does to you physically,as you sometimes have trouble keeping your eyes open and have a tired look on your face + baggy eyes.

Why should you HAVE to game when your tired?If your not feeling right and you believe its affecting your thinking than I think its fine not to. So what if a cute girl walks by and you dont talk with her?Big whoop there are plenty out there and besides if you are that desperate to game girls 24/7 then I think you need to find a hobby.

I guess you can just try and make the most of it bro. In my opinion though, I dont try and game when im tired,and yea other people here may argue and say that Im just making up excuses but oh well.
 

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Exhumed said:
how do you guys game when you're tired?
You take a nap first. Try doing anything when you're sleep deprived. Doesn't work.

Allurre said:
Slap yourself out the tired state of mind.

Splash water on your face.

Mind over matter bro.
^ You should listen to this guy, he's a CEO. LOL.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Overall my game crashes when I'm tired. Some guys say they are better when they are tired/hungover as they have the '*******' feel about them, but it doesn't work for me. I just look rough, my smiling decreases and I feel less sociable. If I've got a big night ahead of me, I either wake up late, or wake up early, then have a siesta before I head out if possible.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
You take a nap first. Try doing anything when you're sleep deprived. Doesn't work.



^ You should listen to this guy, he's a CEO. LOL.

Not just that, "Another PUA peddling his wares." Don't forget that part out playboy.
 
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