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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

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Gaming when you're tired

Exhumed

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Anyone here who goes to high school/college probably realizes you have to be looking and feeling good almost all of the time if you want to succeed socially...in high school I had to wake up at 6 every morning, and I'm no morning person, so that killed my social skills...I'll have to wake up at 10 when I start college, which is much more reasonable, but I figure it's still worth discussing...how do you guys game when you're tired?

I find it's very difficult to convey the same level of confidence and charisma when I'm tired, but at the same time if I see a cute girl I'm not going to let tiredness stop me from talking to her...unfortunately I'm still less successful when I haven't slept well, but that's almost inevitable. :)

So what do you guys do differently when you're tired from waking up early?
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

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She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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619joe

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Well man there are different ways to look at it.

One one hand, many will say that being tired is used as a form of excuse and it is. Stating that,being tired,is just an internal thing and that you can get past it easily and that its all about confidence. That no matter how tired you are,your performance should always be up to par.

I disagree though. Theres no doubt that tiredness/lack of sleep affects physical and mental performance and thats a fact. So naturally the brains thinking process is affected. Not so much so that you start forgetting all key steps to a pickup but just mere little details you may forget to remember. Not to mention what lack of sleep does to you physically,as you sometimes have trouble keeping your eyes open and have a tired look on your face + baggy eyes.

Why should you HAVE to game when your tired?If your not feeling right and you believe its affecting your thinking than I think its fine not to. So what if a cute girl walks by and you dont talk with her?Big whoop there are plenty out there and besides if you are that desperate to game girls 24/7 then I think you need to find a hobby.

I guess you can just try and make the most of it bro. In my opinion though, I dont try and game when im tired,and yea other people here may argue and say that Im just making up excuses but oh well.
 

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Exhumed said:
how do you guys game when you're tired?
You take a nap first. Try doing anything when you're sleep deprived. Doesn't work.

Allurre said:
Slap yourself out the tired state of mind.

Splash water on your face.

Mind over matter bro.
^ You should listen to this guy, he's a CEO. LOL.
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hughman

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Overall my game crashes when I'm tired. Some guys say they are better when they are tired/hungover as they have the '*******' feel about them, but it doesn't work for me. I just look rough, my smiling decreases and I feel less sociable. If I've got a big night ahead of me, I either wake up late, or wake up early, then have a siesta before I head out if possible.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
You take a nap first. Try doing anything when you're sleep deprived. Doesn't work.



^ You should listen to this guy, he's a CEO. LOL.

Not just that, "Another PUA peddling his wares." Don't forget that part out playboy.
 
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