"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Gaming on your own

Al parsons

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I hate being on my own. I hate walking by myself, working by myself etc . when I am wity familiar people around I feel normal and confident, basically safe. It’s the same for gaming and socialising. I need to feel confident to be able to socialise and pick up girls so I need to have my friends around watching me!

Non of the people I know is interested in winging me or going out with me to pick up chicks. I go out with friends but all we do is the boring usual stuff; drinking smoking and talking **** (it’s depressing I know lol)

How do you keep it cool when you don’t know anyone in a room and you want to talk to girls? I mean there is no one you can run off to and lough it off if you fail :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MoreThanSmooth

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I’m in the same position.

No photos of me for OLD because my friends never take photos. No-one ever wants to go out and talk to cuties with me because they’re all either tied down, ridiculously introverted or just complete p*ssies.

I’d say go alone to a social club or group activity. Means you don’t have to cold approach alone, because you’re naturally in a closed environment with women.
 

Von

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I’m in the same position.

No photos of me for OLD because my friends never take photos. No-one ever wants to go out and talk to cuties with me because they’re all either tied down, ridiculously introverted or just complete p*ssies.

I’d say go alone to a social club or group activity. Means you don’t have to cold approach alone, because you’re naturally in a closed environment with women.
Got the same issues.

However, I love going out alone (it probably comes with age since I am 29 now).

However, gaming a set alone isn't my first desire. Last night after 8 hours of studying and house confinement. I went for a walk alone, ended up at a bar that was pack to the point I took the only chair left in a corner, got a drink.... Only 3 hot girls in set seemed approachable (alone with no guys)... out of the 3 was the hottest girl in the place and she dressed like a slut (no bra, breast all out, he shirt was basically her underwear too etc.)... I made eye contact, got interested but didn't act... I preferred to chat to the couple next to me (the girl was single and he was gay).

Anyway, when you don't feel like it or too tired... don't do it but force yourself to go out.. Just to take fresh air. And atleast chat with someone. Eventually the rest will pick up.

Always the first step that is hard. Me, next time,will open a set of 3 girls just to convince I can do it.

I have no issues approaching people physically close, or 1 girl alone, or 2 girls alone. Gotta work on 3
 
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