"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gaming on your own

Al parsons

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I hate being on my own. I hate walking by myself, working by myself etc . when I am wity familiar people around I feel normal and confident, basically safe. It’s the same for gaming and socialising. I need to feel confident to be able to socialise and pick up girls so I need to have my friends around watching me!

Non of the people I know is interested in winging me or going out with me to pick up chicks. I go out with friends but all we do is the boring usual stuff; drinking smoking and talking **** (it’s depressing I know lol)

How do you keep it cool when you don’t know anyone in a room and you want to talk to girls? I mean there is no one you can run off to and lough it off if you fail :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MoreThanSmooth

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I’m in the same position.

No photos of me for OLD because my friends never take photos. No-one ever wants to go out and talk to cuties with me because they’re all either tied down, ridiculously introverted or just complete p*ssies.

I’d say go alone to a social club or group activity. Means you don’t have to cold approach alone, because you’re naturally in a closed environment with women.
 

Von

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I’m in the same position.

No photos of me for OLD because my friends never take photos. No-one ever wants to go out and talk to cuties with me because they’re all either tied down, ridiculously introverted or just complete p*ssies.

I’d say go alone to a social club or group activity. Means you don’t have to cold approach alone, because you’re naturally in a closed environment with women.
Got the same issues.

However, I love going out alone (it probably comes with age since I am 29 now).

However, gaming a set alone isn't my first desire. Last night after 8 hours of studying and house confinement. I went for a walk alone, ended up at a bar that was pack to the point I took the only chair left in a corner, got a drink.... Only 3 hot girls in set seemed approachable (alone with no guys)... out of the 3 was the hottest girl in the place and she dressed like a slut (no bra, breast all out, he shirt was basically her underwear too etc.)... I made eye contact, got interested but didn't act... I preferred to chat to the couple next to me (the girl was single and he was gay).

Anyway, when you don't feel like it or too tired... don't do it but force yourself to go out.. Just to take fresh air. And atleast chat with someone. Eventually the rest will pick up.

Always the first step that is hard. Me, next time,will open a set of 3 girls just to convince I can do it.

I have no issues approaching people physically close, or 1 girl alone, or 2 girls alone. Gotta work on 3
 
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