"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Gaming ghetto girls

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Hello SoSuave community, I haven't seen a topic like this ever go up but I live in NYC, a very bad part in NYC. Mostly the girls that live in the city are ghetto, stuck up, and have attitudes that are aggressive. How do you game these type of ghetto girls, I'm sure they are the same everywhere but girls in NY are on a different level. These type of girls constantly **** test you in a aggressive manner. How to deal? Does anyone know how to game these type of girls?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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spiegel549

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I was born and raised in NYC before moving to Cali. Why on earth...regardless of what part of the city you live, would you want to game up ghetto broads?? lol...take the subway 10minutes your in a nicer area with ten times more approachable women. Plus you have Hoboken right across the river which on Washington St. has a TON of bars with college-working women..
 

PeasantPlayer

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Yawn to easy for me, i'm in a the hood part of chicago which is probably 10x worse then NY ratchets, ratchet hos are simple and if they like you, they will let it be known you could bed one of these females in under an hour, I have done it......see countless dudes do it. Be yourself, and don't come off as a push over and speak your mind and these ratchets will fall
 

AllDay85

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Act like a ghetto rapper. Call women bitches, ignore their texts, make out with other women in front of them, degrade them and make fun of them repeatedly, beat up other guys in front of them, learn to rap, etc. You get the picture. Be as much of a worthless junky as you can possibly be, don't work, don't take care of any children you have, sell drugs. Just do it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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zinc4

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Go to a ghetto club solo ...drink some strong mixed drinks, shots, whatever it takes.. start getting hyper and dance like a madman in an isolated spot by yourself.

They will start approaching and/or groping you.

I'm in Atlanta and have rolled into a club with a freakin cardingin sweater and tie underneath...all black dudes thugged out.. and chicks, only white guy inside and left with the hottest slut more than once. Just got to go crazy to the music and be confident. Watch out for the haters, though.
 

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Yuck... Why even go for women who lack such class? I mean, do you seriously want to focus your energy on second class trash when you could be trying to get more cultured women?
 
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