"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Gaming a solid 8 with a BF

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I met a solid HB8 last week. She happened to work at my last job. I knew she was feeling me because I could see her talking about me. She then started hitting on me. Before I knew what happened I had lost her without the chance to get a #close.

I e-mailed her the next week and asked for the number she said “that probably would not be a good idea because I have a boyfriend”

I just want to twist this one out. Any Ideas or suggestions on how to play this one?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I agree with you but I am curious as to if anyone else ran into the same scenario. I am not looking to work at this one. I just want to f*** with her head via e-mail.
 

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I did learn one thing, especially if a girl has a BF, seal the deal that night. That will probably be your last chance.
 

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You failed to strike when the iron was hot.

She was hitting on you and your failure to notice it until after the fact was taken by her as a rejection.

Her BF line whether true or not was her way of saying you had your chance and you blew it.

Stupid bytches. :mad:
 

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when a girl tells you she has a BF, it's noth ing but a prodedure to releave herself of guilt for whatever she might do in the future.. because you prusued a girl with a BF..

when a girl starts telling you how GREAT her BF is, and how good he makes her feel, then it's time to move on. you have no hope
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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RE:

my suggestion, stay away until she's single.

What if her BF finds out and he's nuts? Is it worth it? I always cringe at these 'She has a boyfriend' threads because Ive seen friends beatup, stomped down, shot at and yes even killed over messing with someone that was married or hooked up with a jealous boyfriend even ex bf's.
 
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