"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Gaming a solid 8 with a BF

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I met a solid HB8 last week. She happened to work at my last job. I knew she was feeling me because I could see her talking about me. She then started hitting on me. Before I knew what happened I had lost her without the chance to get a #close.

I e-mailed her the next week and asked for the number she said “that probably would not be a good idea because I have a boyfriend”

I just want to twist this one out. Any Ideas or suggestions on how to play this one?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I agree with you but I am curious as to if anyone else ran into the same scenario. I am not looking to work at this one. I just want to f*** with her head via e-mail.
 
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I did learn one thing, especially if a girl has a BF, seal the deal that night. That will probably be your last chance.
 
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You failed to strike when the iron was hot.

She was hitting on you and your failure to notice it until after the fact was taken by her as a rejection.

Her BF line whether true or not was her way of saying you had your chance and you blew it.

Stupid bytches. :mad:
 
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when a girl tells you she has a BF, it's noth ing but a prodedure to releave herself of guilt for whatever she might do in the future.. because you prusued a girl with a BF..

when a girl starts telling you how GREAT her BF is, and how good he makes her feel, then it's time to move on. you have no hope
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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RE:

my suggestion, stay away until she's single.

What if her BF finds out and he's nuts? Is it worth it? I always cringe at these 'She has a boyfriend' threads because Ive seen friends beatup, stomped down, shot at and yes even killed over messing with someone that was married or hooked up with a jealous boyfriend even ex bf's.
 
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