"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Gaming a solid 8 with a BF

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I met a solid HB8 last week. She happened to work at my last job. I knew she was feeling me because I could see her talking about me. She then started hitting on me. Before I knew what happened I had lost her without the chance to get a #close.

I e-mailed her the next week and asked for the number she said “that probably would not be a good idea because I have a boyfriend”

I just want to twist this one out. Any Ideas or suggestions on how to play this one?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I agree with you but I am curious as to if anyone else ran into the same scenario. I am not looking to work at this one. I just want to f*** with her head via e-mail.
 

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I did learn one thing, especially if a girl has a BF, seal the deal that night. That will probably be your last chance.
 

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You failed to strike when the iron was hot.

She was hitting on you and your failure to notice it until after the fact was taken by her as a rejection.

Her BF line whether true or not was her way of saying you had your chance and you blew it.

Stupid bytches. :mad:
 

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when a girl tells you she has a BF, it's noth ing but a prodedure to releave herself of guilt for whatever she might do in the future.. because you prusued a girl with a BF..

when a girl starts telling you how GREAT her BF is, and how good he makes her feel, then it's time to move on. you have no hope
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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RE:

my suggestion, stay away until she's single.

What if her BF finds out and he's nuts? Is it worth it? I always cringe at these 'She has a boyfriend' threads because Ive seen friends beatup, stomped down, shot at and yes even killed over messing with someone that was married or hooked up with a jealous boyfriend even ex bf's.
 
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