"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Gaming a girl too hard?

Meisterman

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When you're gaming a girl to the point of ignoring texts, giving short replies, never initiating, acting like you don't give a fu*k, etc...(But you still bang her on occasion) And she chases you more because of it, in other words it gets her hamster wheel spinning. But what about when you game a girl so hard, give no fu*ks at all, that she just gives up and stops trying. Do you sweeten up a bit then or try to make things right? Because even though I think ignoring works when a girl is interested in you, you can only take it so far until she thinks you're just not interested and starts becoming equally unresponsive to you. How do you react when you see the early signs of this happening?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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djthiago1

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Instead of acting like you don't give a fck, try feeding them little bits of you instead.
 

Meisterman

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djthiago1 said:
Instead of acting like you don't give a fck, try feeding them little bits of you instead.
That's what I try to do. Like a rabbit on a treadmill chasing carrots. I keep the carrots just out of reach but still within sight:D
 

El Payaso

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You gave to balance it out. In the case that you over game, you just rein it back in a bit. You give them just enough tidbits to hang around. Always the bare minimum.
 

latinnova

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Yup... send em little things here and there to let them know that they are still on your mind, but that's it. Gaming too hard will cause them to go away because of absolutely no interest, which is my intention with some of them, lol.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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