"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Gaming a girl too hard?

Meisterman

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When you're gaming a girl to the point of ignoring texts, giving short replies, never initiating, acting like you don't give a fu*k, etc...(But you still bang her on occasion) And she chases you more because of it, in other words it gets her hamster wheel spinning. But what about when you game a girl so hard, give no fu*ks at all, that she just gives up and stops trying. Do you sweeten up a bit then or try to make things right? Because even though I think ignoring works when a girl is interested in you, you can only take it so far until she thinks you're just not interested and starts becoming equally unresponsive to you. How do you react when you see the early signs of this happening?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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djthiago1

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Instead of acting like you don't give a fck, try feeding them little bits of you instead.
 

Meisterman

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djthiago1 said:
Instead of acting like you don't give a fck, try feeding them little bits of you instead.
That's what I try to do. Like a rabbit on a treadmill chasing carrots. I keep the carrots just out of reach but still within sight:D
 

El Payaso

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You gave to balance it out. In the case that you over game, you just rein it back in a bit. You give them just enough tidbits to hang around. Always the bare minimum.
 

latinnova

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Yup... send em little things here and there to let them know that they are still on your mind, but that's it. Gaming too hard will cause them to go away because of absolutely no interest, which is my intention with some of them, lol.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

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