"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Gaming a gamer

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DJSavvy

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You're seeing a girl, who you KNOW is a gamer. She's seeing other guys, and likewise; you're seeing other girls. She gives you the right signs verbal and non-verbal but you just can't place this indecisive, smart creature for some reason.

When you chill, you can tell sometimes she's phishing, hesitant, and testing how persistent you are with her. All women test, this I know. We're physical with each other so a LJBF is not in the picture. How would you guys play this? I'm thinking a little push-pull- i've been 'hot' and giving her attention for a while, perhaps it's time to turn 'cold' and treat her differently

Its a poker game, how would you handle something like this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If your gaming a girl like that. She knows what the business is. Just go straight for the treasure chest.
 
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I'm not a pro - but applying knowledge from sports and other games - what do you do when you meet an equal opponent or superior one?


You use the element of surprise (which comes in many forms) and charge in whens they're off guard and dont have time to evaluate. If people know the tactics and patterns, you need to think outside of the box for something new to get her really interested in you.

I cant give any examples because I don't know enough about gaming, but do say/something that would totally blowout what she would expect.
 
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