"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Gaming a gamer

DJSavvy

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You're seeing a girl, who you KNOW is a gamer. She's seeing other guys, and likewise; you're seeing other girls. She gives you the right signs verbal and non-verbal but you just can't place this indecisive, smart creature for some reason.

When you chill, you can tell sometimes she's phishing, hesitant, and testing how persistent you are with her. All women test, this I know. We're physical with each other so a LJBF is not in the picture. How would you guys play this? I'm thinking a little push-pull- i've been 'hot' and giving her attention for a while, perhaps it's time to turn 'cold' and treat her differently

Its a poker game, how would you handle something like this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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If your gaming a girl like that. She knows what the business is. Just go straight for the treasure chest.
 

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I'm not a pro - but applying knowledge from sports and other games - what do you do when you meet an equal opponent or superior one?


You use the element of surprise (which comes in many forms) and charge in whens they're off guard and dont have time to evaluate. If people know the tactics and patterns, you need to think outside of the box for something new to get her really interested in you.

I cant give any examples because I don't know enough about gaming, but do say/something that would totally blowout what she would expect.
 
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