"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Gaming a college girl, need some advice

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ghostrider943

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Im gaming a college girl. We havent had sex yet and I havent fully emotionally committed to her. I know there's sex in college and she's a 9. I really think me and her will get married but I dont want to get hurt. How can I tell her that I want to be her official bf but we should see other people?

BTW if I want to fall under this somewhat committed relationship, should I just:
1) call her every now and then to just talk to her
2) take her to places I'm going to (ie car shows, informal dates)
3) avoid mentioning who we're seeing
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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chinwaggler

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.......... you want to marry someone you're not emotionally committed to?

what's different in this game than any other anyway.
 
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TheBucketOfTruth

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ghostrider943 said:
Im gaming a college girl. We havent had sex yet and I havent fully emotionally committed to her. I know there's sex in college and she's a 9. I really think me and her will get married but I dont want to get hurt. How can I tell her that I want to be her official bf but we should see other people?
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Are you serious? Don't think about marriage while in college. Also, if this girl is marriage material (IMO next to nobody at that age is), why do you want to see other people? You being her "official bf" and you guys seeing other people seems kind of incongruent to me.
 
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Your post makes no sense at all, literally. First you state you want to be her "official boyfriend" and than you state that you want it so that "you see other people." Stop contradicting yourself, get your points straight, and than present them in a logical and coherent post so that people can actually help you and your situation.
 
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