"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Gaming a college girl, need some advice

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ghostrider943

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Im gaming a college girl. We havent had sex yet and I havent fully emotionally committed to her. I know there's sex in college and she's a 9. I really think me and her will get married but I dont want to get hurt. How can I tell her that I want to be her official bf but we should see other people?

BTW if I want to fall under this somewhat committed relationship, should I just:
1) call her every now and then to just talk to her
2) take her to places I'm going to (ie car shows, informal dates)
3) avoid mentioning who we're seeing
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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chinwaggler

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.......... you want to marry someone you're not emotionally committed to?

what's different in this game than any other anyway.
 
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TheBucketOfTruth

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ghostrider943 said:
Im gaming a college girl. We havent had sex yet and I havent fully emotionally committed to her. I know there's sex in college and she's a 9. I really think me and her will get married but I dont want to get hurt. How can I tell her that I want to be her official bf but we should see other people?
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Are you serious? Don't think about marriage while in college. Also, if this girl is marriage material (IMO next to nobody at that age is), why do you want to see other people? You being her "official bf" and you guys seeing other people seems kind of incongruent to me.
 
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Your post makes no sense at all, literally. First you state you want to be her "official boyfriend" and than you state that you want it so that "you see other people." Stop contradicting yourself, get your points straight, and than present them in a logical and coherent post so that people can actually help you and your situation.
 
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