"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Gaming a college girl, need some advice

ghostrider943

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 23, 2008
Messages
17
Reaction score
0
Im gaming a college girl. We havent had sex yet and I havent fully emotionally committed to her. I know there's sex in college and she's a 9. I really think me and her will get married but I dont want to get hurt. How can I tell her that I want to be her official bf but we should see other people?

BTW if I want to fall under this somewhat committed relationship, should I just:
1) call her every now and then to just talk to her
2) take her to places I'm going to (ie car shows, informal dates)
3) avoid mentioning who we're seeing
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

chinwaggler

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 11, 2008
Messages
292
Reaction score
3
.......... you want to marry someone you're not emotionally committed to?

what's different in this game than any other anyway.
 

TheBucketOfTruth

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 4, 2008
Messages
554
Reaction score
7
Location
Portland, OR
ghostrider943 said:
Im gaming a college girl. We havent had sex yet and I havent fully emotionally committed to her. I know there's sex in college and she's a 9. I really think me and her will get married but I dont want to get hurt. How can I tell her that I want to be her official bf but we should see other people?
Are you serious? Don't think about marriage while in college. Also, if this girl is marriage material (IMO next to nobody at that age is), why do you want to see other people? You being her "official bf" and you guys seeing other people seems kind of incongruent to me.
 

Axcell

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 12, 2007
Messages
519
Reaction score
6
Your post makes no sense at all, literally. First you state you want to be her "official boyfriend" and than you state that you want it so that "you see other people." Stop contradicting yourself, get your points straight, and than present them in a logical and coherent post so that people can actually help you and your situation.
 
Top