"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Game with kiddo in tow?

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atlantadawg

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Ok, lurked here for a minute, first post.
Will keep it quick: separated, thank f'ing god, for a few months now from a terrible woman with multiple mental issues. Have put up with a lot of bs, for sure.
Have 8 yo daughter that I'm very tight with, she's always been Daddy's Little Girl, yadda yadda yadda.
Seeing a chick fairly regularly already (She's 30, I just turned 42, so not too shabby a start.), but don't want to get tied down into anything too quickly, so definitely have my eyes open when I'm out and about.
Have historically done very well with the ladies, but have been stuck in that hellhole of a marriage for the last decade, so admittedly still a little rusty.
Have noticed twice now in the last few weeks some definite flirtyness/vibe going on with a couple of girls while I had daughter with me.
Couldn't think of a way to pull off getting the number without daughter suspicions getting raised. (I'm very sensitive to her not seeing me hit on multiple chicks as this is all still pretty new to her.)
So, what's the best move here?
Blow the chick off and shoot to re-engage later when kiddo's not with me?
Any advice to a newly back in the game guy for this situation?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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VladPatton

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Yeah, you can't pick up with your daughter around. Enjoy the day with her and forget women during that period. Mack up the bıtches when you're on your own.
 
Desdinova

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I don't sarge with my kid around. That time is meant for me and my child.

Also, I think things are a bit different with boys than with girls. I honestly have no problem with my boy knowing that I date a lot of women. It would be different if I had a girl, and I would likely be more hesitant to let her meet any women who pops into my life. Girls are more likely to have an emotion-filled reaction. Just ask any woman who had split parents but continued to see their dad.
 
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Well, you could try to hit on women, just say "I'd like to meet up with you sometime" Kids are better than a puppy :)

ONLY problem with that is my son's kock blocked me all the time, even when I wasn't hitting on women :)
 
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