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Game While Dancing

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What do you guys talk about with girls your dancing with?

It happens quite often to me; where I am dancing with a girl in a club and its going well, but then she loses interest. I know its becuase I dont really talk to her while we are dancing.

What are some good things to say/do while you are on the dance floor?
 

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Lead them. ie hold them tight and push and pull them around the dance floor.

spin them around, dip them just have fun with it.

laugh and smile. if you suck at dancing just laugh at how funny you must look.

Just joke with them, they will probably say something like, "you got some moves" and if you suck say "ya im a dance instructor" or "im a choreographer"
 
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I am actually a good dancer; when I get into it I sometimes even get carried away with the spinning and leading and I actually noticed I put off some girls; they just don’t expect to be thrown around like that.

My question is more about the chit-chat that happens while dancing. I noticed that after a while, you can’t just dance around; some further interaction is needed. I always see guys "whisper sweet nothings" in the girls eat and I guess that part is what I am having trouble with. I don’t want to talk when I dance and the girlies seem like they do.
 
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