AlwaysExcel
Senior Don Juan
Hey I have a problem for which I'd like advice. I'm trying to be a self respecting challenge while at the same time not being rigid with my game. For example, I'll go out on first or second dates on weekends if the girl lives in a city an hour away from me or I'll reveal things about myself to keep the convo flowing and stimulating. I really dig Fingers' post about shattering the limits and not being attached to rules or girls.
Anyhow, I was on a 2nd date with this girl last night and she told me about how some mutual friends are performing at a festival next friday night and casually asked if I wanted to go. Without thinking I said sure, but then told her to keep me posted because I wasn't sure what I had going on that night.
She e-mailed me tonight talking about not getting the opportunity to take advantage of me last night (I kidded her about this last night when she was buying me drinks). In the next line she immediately suggested that we get together on Friday night and watch a movie and then go to this fest, if I still wanted to hang out with her. We got very physical before when we were watching a movie. Sounds all good right?
Well, the catch is that she is having a party on Saturday night that I am definitely going to. Also, even though last night was our second date, I've partied with her and a bunch of our friends for a couple weekends in between. I'm wary of being too available and showing her that I don't have dates on both important weekend nights. I know I've increased interest with her by showing value with other girls in her presence, so I'm not trying to sabotage my game.
The problem is that I don't want to be so committed to my game that I pass up a fun time. I really don't have anything else going on that Friday night. I've been trying to reach this other girl to go on a date on Thursday night. If I do, I'll decline for Friday because I'll be too tired from Thursday. But if I can't reach the other chick what do ya'll suggest? Game or potential fun on her terms?
Thanks!
Anyhow, I was on a 2nd date with this girl last night and she told me about how some mutual friends are performing at a festival next friday night and casually asked if I wanted to go. Without thinking I said sure, but then told her to keep me posted because I wasn't sure what I had going on that night.
She e-mailed me tonight talking about not getting the opportunity to take advantage of me last night (I kidded her about this last night when she was buying me drinks). In the next line she immediately suggested that we get together on Friday night and watch a movie and then go to this fest, if I still wanted to hang out with her. We got very physical before when we were watching a movie. Sounds all good right?
Well, the catch is that she is having a party on Saturday night that I am definitely going to. Also, even though last night was our second date, I've partied with her and a bunch of our friends for a couple weekends in between. I'm wary of being too available and showing her that I don't have dates on both important weekend nights. I know I've increased interest with her by showing value with other girls in her presence, so I'm not trying to sabotage my game.
The problem is that I don't want to be so committed to my game that I pass up a fun time. I really don't have anything else going on that Friday night. I've been trying to reach this other girl to go on a date on Thursday night. If I do, I'll decline for Friday because I'll be too tired from Thursday. But if I can't reach the other chick what do ya'll suggest? Game or potential fun on her terms?
Thanks!