"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Game to fit my traits

Gammergq

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Yesterday I recieved some great feedback I hope today could match tommorow. I have fthree fantastic character traits I like but I don't know how to express them or apply them or when to use them out in the field maybe its nerves. The traits I have is ****y/Arrogant e.g sarcastic,teasing, Romantic e.g warm gestures, romantic stories, Charming e.g smooth compliments,. Okay with all these traits how would you construct your game.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Those aren't character traits. Character traits are things like, loyal, funny, outgoing, honest... You are describing...techniques? Are you in high school, the ****y arrogant works well then and after that not so much with quality girls. Read the entire DJ bible. You need to project your authentic personality. Before that you have to discover your authentic personality. In the meantime talk to girls like they are old friends, keep a sexual vibe, throw in some jokes and some light ****y stuff. Its easy to overdo the ****y/arrogant when youre starting with it. I cant tell you much more without knowing anything else about your situ.
 

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Gammergq said:
Yesterday I recieved some great feedback I hope today could match tommorow. I have fthree fantastic character traits I like but I don't know how to express them or apply them or when to use them out in the field maybe its nerves. The traits I have is ****y/Arrogant e.g sarcastic,teasing, Romantic e.g warm gestures, romantic stories, Charming e.g smooth compliments,. Okay with all these traits how would you construct your game.
So, you're opener might sound something like this.

"Hey, yo, wuuuuuussssssuuuup little chicken. It's your lucky day. I'm gonna tell you a story about how I took my last GF horseback riding in Spain. "La da da da da da it was great . . but then she said some messed up shyt in the hotel room. And you know I aint havin any of that from no chicken, so I left the Biatch in Europe.
 
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