"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Game to fit my traits

Gammergq

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Yesterday I recieved some great feedback I hope today could match tommorow. I have fthree fantastic character traits I like but I don't know how to express them or apply them or when to use them out in the field maybe its nerves. The traits I have is ****y/Arrogant e.g sarcastic,teasing, Romantic e.g warm gestures, romantic stories, Charming e.g smooth compliments,. Okay with all these traits how would you construct your game.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Inside Man

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Those aren't character traits. Character traits are things like, loyal, funny, outgoing, honest... You are describing...techniques? Are you in high school, the ****y arrogant works well then and after that not so much with quality girls. Read the entire DJ bible. You need to project your authentic personality. Before that you have to discover your authentic personality. In the meantime talk to girls like they are old friends, keep a sexual vibe, throw in some jokes and some light ****y stuff. Its easy to overdo the ****y/arrogant when youre starting with it. I cant tell you much more without knowing anything else about your situ.
 

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Gammergq said:
Yesterday I recieved some great feedback I hope today could match tommorow. I have fthree fantastic character traits I like but I don't know how to express them or apply them or when to use them out in the field maybe its nerves. The traits I have is ****y/Arrogant e.g sarcastic,teasing, Romantic e.g warm gestures, romantic stories, Charming e.g smooth compliments,. Okay with all these traits how would you construct your game.
So, you're opener might sound something like this.

"Hey, yo, wuuuuuussssssuuuup little chicken. It's your lucky day. I'm gonna tell you a story about how I took my last GF horseback riding in Spain. "La da da da da da it was great . . but then she said some messed up shyt in the hotel room. And you know I aint havin any of that from no chicken, so I left the Biatch in Europe.
 
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