Game does not work in 2024 - Game is ruining your chances

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1. As a man with no game, I'm glad to hear game is pointless.

it makes you more efficient at banging the girls who think you are hot. YOu can't 'game' a girl into wanting you (shouldn't even be a debate about that at this point when you analyse all of the infield footage and such! PUA's bang the girls who already like them, and when they approach a girl who isn't into them at all, it goes in their 'rejection compilation' despite all of their knowledge and attempts at turning it around)

2. I question the idea that acting uninterested increases your chances of getting a woman. I hardly ever express interest in a woman, yet look where that's gotten me.

more or less true. Acting uninterested doesn't magically make women chase you lol. That's just silly PUA 'wisdom'. It actually reminds me of a field report I wrote on 'seddit' years and years ago when I was very new to 'game' after a night out with my really handsome wingman at the time (who i've mentioned many times here). Basically, he spent all night playing on the fruit machines in a pub (not cold approaching as seddit advised), and girls were walking up to him and trying to bang him. The morons at seddit were trying to tell me it's because he was playing the fruit machine that all teh girls wanted him ahah. (needless to say I played the fruit machine the next week and didn't get a sniff!)

Like many things in PUA, it helps with girls who are already into. That applies for basically all of it, including 'acting disinterested'. If a girl thinks you are hot, she'll probably want you even more if you kind of ignore her a bit. But doing teh same thing if you are NOT her type (too old, too bald, too fat etc) then rest assured you can ignore her until the cows come home. She won't notice. SHe won't care. You don't get that girl lol

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

2. I question the idea that acting uninterested increases your chances of getting a woman. I hardly ever express interest in a woman, yet look where that's gotten me.

That's because you're not supposed to be uninterested, but disinterested. You might want to learn the difference.

 

[GoodMan32]

it makes you more efficient at banging the girls who think you are hot. YOu can't 'game' a girl into wanting you (shouldn't even be a debate about that at this point when you analyse all of the infield footage and such! PUA's bang the girls who already like them, and when they approach a girl who isn't into them at all, it goes in their 'rejection compilation' despite all of their knowledge and attempts at turning it around)


more or less true. Acting uninterested doesn't magically make women chase you lol. That's just silly PUA 'wisdom'. It actually reminds me of a field report I wrote on 'seddit' years and years ago when I was very new to 'game' after a night out with my really handsome wingman at the time (who i've mentioned many times here). Basically, he spent all night playing on the fruit machines in a pub (not cold approaching as seddit advised), and girls were walking up to him and trying to bang him. The morons at seddit were trying to tell me it's because he was playing the fruit machine that all teh girls wanted him ahah. (needless to say I played the fruit machine the next week and didn't get a sniff!)

Like many things in PUA, it helps with girls who are already into. That applies for basically all of it, including 'acting disinterested'. If a girl thinks you are hot, she'll probably want you even more if you kind of ignore her a bit. But doing teh same thing if you are NOT her type (too old, too bald, too fat etc) then rest assured you can ignore her until the cows come home. She won't notice. SHe won't care. You don't get that girl lol

That is good information. I like the way you put it (game can help you bang broads who find you attractive as it is; game won't, however, make a woman who isn't attracted to you become attracted)

While I generally get what you're saying, what about men with bad looks who manage to slay? In those specific instances, could it be that their game ends up making up for their lackluster looks?

On the disinterested thing, there have been coworkers through the years I heard through the grapevine were into me...yet I never made a move. Unfortunately, acting disinterested didn't get me anywhere.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

On the disinterested thing, there have been coworkers through the years I heard through the grapevine were into me...yet I never made a move. Unfortunately, acting disinterested didn't get me anywhere.

Acting like a retard isn't the same as 'acting disinterested', grasshopper.

 

[darksprezzatura]

At the top of the game, there is no game

 

[GoodMan32]

Acting like a retard isn't the same as 'acting disinterested', grasshopper.

Semantics.

The point is I found out they were into me, yet never made a move. Certainly sounds like the textbook definition of "acting disinterested"

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Semantics.

The point is I found out they were into me, yet never made a move. Certainly sounds like the textbook definition of "acting disinterested"

It's not semantics, they are two different things.

I thought autists are better at taking things literally, but apparently you're the exception:

DISinterested: not influenced by considerations of personal advantage.
UNinterested: not interested in or concerned about something or someone.

 

[oOh Nasty]

Surprisingly good post. Plus, you shouted out the legendary Roissy. You also soften up the convo a bit by talking about healthy women. Bravo. LMS > everything else.

Edit so that I don't double post:

95% of the time, you can't actively form attraction. Don't conflate forming attraction with her already being attracted to you in some way. If she's attracted to you and have a fun game of pool with her, then you're just confirming to her that she finds you attractive. If she's not attracted to you and you have a fun game of pool with her, then you're just putting yourself into the friendzone. That's fine. It happened to me recently. But learn how to stop investing ASAP.

For the most balanced lifestyle that benefits all areas of a man's life, increasing your SMV and then letting the women come to you is the least stressful and most rewarding way to live IMO. Make yourself high value, good-looking, and famous in your circle. The women in your vicinity who find you attractive will purposely put themselves in a position for you to make a move on them. They won't fall into your lap, but they'll hang themselves onto the edge of it.

 

[Solomon]

Surprisingly good post. Plus, you shouted out the legendary Roissy. You also soften up the convo a bit by talking about healthy women. Bravo. LMS > everything else.

Edit so that I don't double post:

95% of the time, you can't actively form attraction. Don't conflate forming attraction with her already being attracted to you in some way. If she's attracted to you and have a fun game of pool with her, then you're just confirming to her that she finds you attractive. If she's not attracted to you and you have a fun game of pool with her, then you're just putting yourself into the friendzone. That's fine. It happened to me recently. But learn how to stop investing ASAP.

For the most balanced lifestyle that benefits all areas of a man's life, increasing your SMV and then letting the women come to you is the least stressful and most rewarding way to live IMO. Make yourself high value, good-looking, and famous in your circle. The women in your vicinity who find you attractive will purposely put themselves in a position for you to make a move on them. They won't fall into your lap, but they'll hang themselves onto the edge of it.

Excellent advice, Boosting your SMV makes a world of difference from personal experience I remember being broke doing hundreds of approaches per month, getting rejected and flaked on numerous times. Raising your value, and finding a niche or social circle can make a dramatic difference in your love life.

I can't imagine now being 40 doing club approaches set after set after like I did in my 20s thinking about it now makes me tired.

 

[BaronOfHair]

On the subject of looks:

I'm of Near Eastern and Hispanic ancestry, bear a strong resemblance to (a somewhat younger)Pedro Pascal, and my complexion/exotic-by-Anglo standards features have never been a barrier my dating women of ALL background. If anything, chicks in The Anglosphere drench themselves over "The Sheikh" look, and have done so, since The 1920s https://www.npr.org/2008/02/04/18602260/valentinos-sheik-an-other-made-to-swoon-over

Personally, I've only noticed colorism being a serious impediment among two demographics: Those of both genders who are EXTREMELY dark(Talking Senegalese complexion here), and men of the yellow/East Asian variety. But even among those crowds, plenty of folks are able to date and mate regularly, WITHOUT having to bleach

Insofar as your thoughts on "game" go: Yeah, this is true, and frankly not an especially original observation https://www.askmen.com/entertainment/austin/the-future-of-the-pua.html Note the date on that article. Even Mystery declares, at the beginning of his book, "I've fallen in love with most of my acquisitions", and I think most would agree: Don't pursue women, unless you're going to be a genuinely loving, giving partner, for however long you're together. Pumping and dumping is the hallmark of a shallow mindset