"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Game and alcohol

Stud No1

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ok guys,



ive read some people talk about drink negatively affecting your game.

id also be interested to know if a the famous PUA's approve of getting tipsy

for me, when im 'on form' so to speak, being tipsy accentuates my good qualities and helps me be more confident. sometimes i find myself being ALOT funnier and wittier with drink in me. im not a shy guy but i guess it takes drink (not excessive amounts) to be 'center stage' and be 100% comfortable. im just being honest. this might only be 2 or 3 pints by the way

just to say my game doesnt suck with no alcohol but imo it helps with a few beers. i suspect most guys are the same?

ofcourse, too much drink is a disaster but this happens me only rarely.


opinions?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Yeah, drinking is your "confidence booster" and drinking too much is a no no.
The other nyte I had too much beer and started talking sh!t to some dumb b!tch. Next thing I know she hit me in the stomache and knocked the wind out of me. So, I poured my drink on her. :crackup: Anyways, just have a few beers at a party and start gaming women.
 

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depends on where you're at. In college I had a lot of drunk hookups, with girls who were drunk too. After college I have been partying a lot less, still drinking but not to extremes. It has helped in some situations and has hurt my game in some situations. There is a line, don't cross it!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Inside Man said:
depends on where you're at. In college I had a lot of drunk hookups, with girls who were drunk too. After college I have been partying a lot less, still drinking but not to extremes. It has helped in some situations and has hurt my game in some situations. There is a line, don't cross it!
true

I have gone to parties were I over did it , but I have had a few success stories too :)
 

ready123

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I like drinking but if you notice you're a different person when you're drunk and it's easy for that liquid courage to be a crutch. on top of that, if you're trying to get your game better, you probably won't remember much about how you pulled that girl the other night
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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jesusrules said:
dude try to cut the drinking out of your life. its not a good idea. learn to be like how you are without it. chicks arent going to take you serious like that if your always tipsy. learn to feel confident.
This is good advice too. But, if you are going to drink. I would only do it on the weekends or special occasions.
 

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My game goes out the window when I drink. Once I get past about 4 beers, good night.
 
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