"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Game and alcohol

Stud No1

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ok guys,



ive read some people talk about drink negatively affecting your game.

id also be interested to know if a the famous PUA's approve of getting tipsy

for me, when im 'on form' so to speak, being tipsy accentuates my good qualities and helps me be more confident. sometimes i find myself being ALOT funnier and wittier with drink in me. im not a shy guy but i guess it takes drink (not excessive amounts) to be 'center stage' and be 100% comfortable. im just being honest. this might only be 2 or 3 pints by the way

just to say my game doesnt suck with no alcohol but imo it helps with a few beers. i suspect most guys are the same?

ofcourse, too much drink is a disaster but this happens me only rarely.


opinions?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Yeah, drinking is your "confidence booster" and drinking too much is a no no.
The other nyte I had too much beer and started talking sh!t to some dumb b!tch. Next thing I know she hit me in the stomache and knocked the wind out of me. So, I poured my drink on her. :crackup: Anyways, just have a few beers at a party and start gaming women.
 

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depends on where you're at. In college I had a lot of drunk hookups, with girls who were drunk too. After college I have been partying a lot less, still drinking but not to extremes. It has helped in some situations and has hurt my game in some situations. There is a line, don't cross it!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Inside Man said:
depends on where you're at. In college I had a lot of drunk hookups, with girls who were drunk too. After college I have been partying a lot less, still drinking but not to extremes. It has helped in some situations and has hurt my game in some situations. There is a line, don't cross it!
true

I have gone to parties were I over did it , but I have had a few success stories too :)
 

ready123

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I like drinking but if you notice you're a different person when you're drunk and it's easy for that liquid courage to be a crutch. on top of that, if you're trying to get your game better, you probably won't remember much about how you pulled that girl the other night
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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jesusrules said:
dude try to cut the drinking out of your life. its not a good idea. learn to be like how you are without it. chicks arent going to take you serious like that if your always tipsy. learn to feel confident.
This is good advice too. But, if you are going to drink. I would only do it on the weekends or special occasions.
 

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My game goes out the window when I drink. Once I get past about 4 beers, good night.
 
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