You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I didn't say gaining 6lbs a week, i said I once gained 6lbs in a week. And it is very possible! How do you think all those hollywood stars bulk up extremely quickly to get wedge for their roles eg. Christian Bale in Batman, or Hugh Jackman for Xmen. They eat ****loads, combined with a very good workout routine involving squats and deadlifts. When bulking up for Xmen origins, Hugh Jackman said he ate a chicken a day as part of his diet. If you could only put on less than 1lb muscle a month like you claim, then how do these actors get wedge in a few months for their role?blinkwatt101 said:I'm sorry but anyone educated in building muscle(read not fat) knows that's gaining 6lbs/week is bullsh1t unless you are on a PED.
Indeed, it will get rid of the veins and the chiselled abs, but you are STILL gaining muscle. If you don't care amount momentarily losing the veiny look and 6 pack, then you can put on muscle quickly.blinkwatt101 said:Putting on 2-3% bodyfat/month is a lot. It's the difference between your veins showing through your chest/shoulders and barely having a six pack. Basically put it this way. You go to a river,one dude has nice flat abs,and i mean FLAT at 5%. His clone comes by at 7-8%...looks like **** compared to the 5% version. When you have a low bodyfat 2-3% can mean the world.
I think it is highly unlikely.Deniska said:Is it honestly possible to gain 5lbs of muscle per week by working out 5-6 days a week?
No steroids, no magic pills, constantly working out and eating.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
They're called PEDs. Or, in lay terms, steroids.CaptainJ said:How do you think all those hollywood stars bulk up extremely quickly to get wedge for their roles eg. Christian Bale in Batman, or Hugh Jackman for Xmen?
Indeed, I never said it would all be muscle, i mentioned that some of it would be fat+fluids etc. But even as you accept, 3lbs+ of muscle a week is still possible. Now considering that I don't eat much for a powerlifter (3 average meals a day), someone who was drinking a full Gallon a day, along with eating 6 good meals a day, doing lots of squatting and deadlifts, followed by getting lots of sleep and recovery would definetly be able to get 5lbs of muscle a week or more. The only problem is that it is an extremely grueling, difficult, not to mention expensive lifestyle and could only be kept up for a short time.Colossus said:They're called PEDs. Or, in lay terms, steroids.
YES, Hugh Jackman did have an impeccable diet when he was getting into shape. And he trained rigorously. But unless he took a year off to get into Wolverine shape, he was using some sort of PED, likely Winstrol or Anavar. I 110% guarantee you. You think he is going to talk about that on Oprah?!?
If you were drinking 6 pints of milk a day and squatting heavily, I'm sure you gained some considerable muscle, but guess what else you gained??? FAT. Just because you aren't displaying signs of subcutaneous fat accumulation doesn't mean there isn't visceral fat accumulation.
I'll say it as bluntly as I can: Unless you are on an AAS, if you gained 6 lbs in a week it is NOT ALL MUSCLE. It is not even 50% muscle. Think about what 3 lbs of steak looks like. That's a lot of meat, right? Now imagine your body biosynthesizing that much muscle tissue in 1 week. If you believe that is possible you need to put down the Flex magazine and pick up a physiology textbook. :crazy:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What a load of BS. Do you know anything about strength training? I've done exactly what you just outlined and not even close to 5lbs muscle/week. Probably a lost cause, but don't listen to this hogwash. 0.5lb/week is doable, 1lb MAYBE. 5lbs? You're on crack.CaptainJ said:Indeed, I never said it would all be muscle, i mentioned that some of it would be fat+fluids etc. But even as you accept, 3lbs+ of muscle a week is still possible. Now considering that I don't eat much for a powerlifter (3 average meals a day), someone who was drinking a full Gallon a day, along with eating 6 good meals a day, doing lots of squatting and deadlifts, followed by getting lots of sleep and recovery would definetly be able to get 5lbs of muscle a week or more. The only problem is that it is an extremely grueling, difficult, not to mention expensive lifestyle and could only be kept up for a short time.
Yes you would gain a lot of fat, but you would gain much more muscle.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.